Ok so what should I do if i am going out with a guy who wants to do more with me but I dont feel comfortable doing these things with him? Should I do it? Or it not how do I say no?
2006-10-06 15:57:54 · 13 answers · asked by Emmmmmmmmm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yep, u really need help...
2006-10-06 16:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if you are talking about sex, hand holding, feely feely stuff, or whatever. Don't let him pressure you into anything. Trust me hon, I know what guys are like, a guy that only wants to do that kind of stuff is not worth it. There are so many great guys out there find one of them. Even good guys want to go a little far sometimes. I've had to tell my man no before and he still loves me. Please dont' do anything that you don't feel comfortable with, you will for sure regret it in the future. Tell him no firmly and if he ignores you leave the relationship right away.
2006-10-06 23:02:43 · answer #2 · answered by Catch a Falling Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of men do not respect women at all if you tell him no then mean it with no smile and let him know why.If he gives you a attitude about it well just remember that is his problem not yours.Some men just like to use the term THEY SCORED so the next day everyone knows everything about your personal business.And if you think he may have something or been around the block a few times then I would make him get tested for STD'S.Remember what ever he is wanting it's about when the time is right for you not him.You have to live with your decision not him.
2006-10-06 23:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by starlight203_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that man you are going out with should respect you, if he really really is a worthy man ,he would give you your time and space and would not rush you into doing things you are not comfortable with.
dont let any man or any person make you do something you dont want to do, dont let them manipulate you, if you do that with him and youre not really happy about it you will be crying about it all the time, dont do that to yourself, love yourself first before you love others.
just say NO tell him you are not comfortable doing those things, if he cannot even respect you and what you want i cant see a reason why you should be with him
remember you are precious, you are precious, dont let any other man decide for you
say no and let him respect that!
2006-10-06 23:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT DO IT...you will only regret it later...PLEASE trust me on this one...I have been there..you have the power to do whatever YOU are comfortable with. Stand up for yourself girl!!! Tell him how you feel, if he doesn't understand...he's not the one for you! Good luck :)
2006-10-06 23:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by Emily Ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say NO! if he's a decent guy then he will be willing to listen to how you feel. If he still continues to want to force you then don't go out with him.
2006-10-06 23:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by KCH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a woman and say no . If he moves on then you didn't want him to begin with. Know what you want and what you don't want and DO NOT be scared to let people know.
2006-10-06 23:00:47 · answer #7 · answered by withoutaname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not do anything that makes you uncomfortable. The guy should not pressure you if he cares about you.
2006-10-06 23:02:29 · answer #8 · answered by tinker bell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO - you're not a piece of meat. Anytime you can't both enjoy the game, don't play.
2006-10-06 23:01:13 · answer #9 · answered by lost 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are talking about sex, then just say that you are not ready for more, and if he doesnt respect that, then refuse to see him again and explain why.
2006-10-06 22:59:57 · answer #10 · answered by moluvsmark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋