If you were able to repeat the relationship do you feel you could have done something differently to have made it into a positive experience?
2006-10-06 16:14:10 · 12 answers · asked by PJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am ending my 20-year marriage over my wife's chronic infidelity, drug use in front of my children, drug use with one of the children, and MUCH WORSE.
Could I have made it a positive experience? Some of it is positive. I have four really wonderful sons. Now, I have to move on and protect the younger two.
2006-10-06 16:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Worst relationship???? Well that would have to have been my last one 8 years ago. We were together for a few years. Engaged, 3 months from marriage and he cheated. I caught him with his pants down litterally. And as far as I keep going through my mind I don't think I could have done it different. We had it good in every way in my mind. We got along, we took off what seemed like every 4 days to go camping or fishing or just hanging out with our friends, we were close, our parents got along, we knew everything about eachother, or so I thought.
So no. I don't think there is anything I could have done to make it a positive ending. The whole experiance was great before the cheating. Wouldn't trade it for the world. He was my first love, and will always have a piece of my heart, though a tiny very sharp piece that I hope he cuts him self with, it is still a piece that is attached to me and to him.
2006-10-06 16:21:12 · answer #2 · answered by inchantedfriend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine was going into the relationship holding back because I knew he had a reputation of being a player with girls. THen he convinced me he was good with his little soppy stories and I started to open up to him and want a proper all in relationship he went and screwed me over by having sex with my best friend after some party. So I lost my boyfriend and my best friend.
But i learnt a hell of a lot more so it ended up being positive.
And i guess that's why he was such a good player in the first place... I jjust couldn't believe I was naive enough to belive all his crap.
Now I'm always in control in every relationship and have to dominate or else I fell too vulnerable and uncomfortable. Crappy hey??!!
2006-10-06 16:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by kamazeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the year of 1998, I got mixed up with this young guy whom I thought was sweet and innocent. WEll, he started to get very demanding after about the fourth month. Oh, forgot to say he was disabled, and milked that for all it was worth too. Well, towards the end of the year I couldn't handle it any more and told him we were through. He tried blackmailing me with a secret I had. I squashed that by going to the mother and telling her myself, very glad I did our (Mom's & mine) relationship is stronger now. Long story short, it wasthe year from hell.
2006-10-06 16:31:07 · answer #4 · answered by Michael R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My worst relationship has been with my mother. Nothing I could have done would change anything. She's psycho.
2006-10-06 16:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by Chocoholic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes there is no "something you could do to make it better"...i seem to get pshycos for boyfriends...i have been in physicly abusive relationships almost leading to death...mentally abusive relationships...been cheated on in almost all of my relationships...but i am super glad i am past all that and i am with a wonderful and devoted fiance who tells me how beautiful i am several times a day, lets me hang out with my friends, would never raise a hand to me...never tell me i'm ugly or fat or anythinge else, wants a family and would never cheat on me...hows that for improvement!
2006-10-06 16:21:39 · answer #6 · answered by Sydney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the one i'm in now...because I regret it and i'm married to him. too late to turn away. I wish I would have followed my heart more before I got married. I thought it was cold feet at the time, but it was really just God trying to tell me that he wasn't the right dude for me.
2006-10-06 16:38:35 · answer #7 · answered by regrettfullyso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With some guys, you just know better from the start, but still date them and realize later.
2006-10-06 16:15:57 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with my worst relationship, NO! my worst relationship was with a guy who went to jail. because he shot somebody and was about to shoot me thank god i have am alarm system
2006-10-06 16:27:54 · answer #9 · answered by Kirsten B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have only ever had one but yes i would have changed it
2006-10-06 16:33:55 · answer #10 · answered by ::Hannah:: 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋