Why don't I feel like a slut? Why don't I feel this overwhelming guilt that everyone talks about? I mean I actually enjoyed it! Is that really unusual for a woman?
2006-10-06 16:06:43 · 16 answers · asked by sosickofred 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The reason I ask is because I was talking to some girlfriends and they were all like OMG he is using you and you shouldn't do that and I don't like one night stands. I was the only one who thought it was way cool. And I am not saying that I am not concerned that the guy thinks less of me because I do see him still but on a professional level. I love the tension. Very sexy to me.
2006-10-06 16:23:43 · update #1
I never regretted my experience. It actually turned into an awesome relationship :)
2006-10-06 16:10:45 · answer #1 · answered by feisty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are only two reasons you may feel this was not right.
A): You are religious and believe it was a sin.
B): You are married.
Other than that it seems your question is only because it was your first time.
We all wonder following that first time if we should have done that even if we enjoyed it. And in some cases because we enjoyed it. The word you used that you don't feel like you are is such an old term and very sexiest. There is no matching term for men unless it is stud.
And it has been my experience this is not at all unusual even among married woman.
However you feel about this never ever feel bad about enjoying it. Sex is not just for men and women should love it just for itself.
2006-10-06 16:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 19 and I've had two. The relaxation have been relationships. And I remorse certainly one of them for certain. And the opposite, I might have performed with out as good. It simply had a sorta humorous tale to move in conjunction with it. Both have been in instances of entire intoxication additionally. I'd as a substitute wait it out for the proper persons.
2016-08-29 06:44:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure it's not *that* unusual for a woman.
It's just that society, despite being so sex-driven, still puts a premium on sex, and that it's not usually something for women to be proud of. Like, it's usually seen as a mistake, or an opportunity for both parties to use each other.
2006-10-06 16:13:23 · answer #4 · answered by Sudy Nim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's cool and at some point one night stands are pretty gross to most people, but having said all that, women get horny and just want a mindless night of passion just like a guy does. Why not just admit it? It's crossed my mind but I wouldn't act on it. Too many wierdos and too many diseases.
2006-10-06 16:27:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no, are you kidding me? Most women today think that this life was given to men to enjoy. Please, the good lord gave this life to all of us as equals. A one night stand, OH WOW WHAT A THRILL. Don't ever feel guilty. Men have constantly tried to make women feel less than. Grab for all the gusto you can girl, and please, don't ever feel guilty. From a woman that did everything the right way. It sucks, being good.
2006-10-06 16:16:23 · answer #6 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think it would be any more unusual for a woman than it is for a man. nothing wrong with enjoying a nice hot fling with someone you like sexually....
2006-10-06 16:09:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think not. Sometimes one night stands are a necessity to us women. Everyone has their sexual peak and that time must have been yours, absolutely nothing wrong with it. Just hope you were protected or something!
2006-10-06 16:08:52 · answer #8 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! I feel the same way, it fact I really hate to see the person again, but i love the night.
2006-10-06 16:08:45 · answer #9 · answered by slyshewolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is different for everyone I think. You are not a **** for liking it, to each his own. Just be careful, aids and std's are everywhere. maybe you just don't want comittment?
2006-10-06 16:09:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋