Family & Relationships - 2 October 2006

My boyfriend wants me to have his kid and Im not ready for that kind of responsibitity and I dont want to grow up just yet! I told him that,but it seemed like he got a lil bummed! how can I explain to him that I want to have his kid, but i dont wanna be a mom yet, I dont wanna have to grow up yet! I dont wanna hurt him b/c I know he really loves me, and wants me! His mom is trying to break us up so I think that is part of the reason he wants to have a baby so then he wont have to lose me! Which I got really upset b/c I felt so bad for telling himno! Should I or Shouldint I?
Thanxs

2006-10-02 04:26:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we are about to get married and he just told me dat and i really love him alot but he lied to me when i asked him the first time what should i do should i call of the engagement or should i let it slide cause i got 1 kid but when he asked me i told him and he lied to me

2006-10-02 04:26:04 · 13 answers · asked by MsTop10 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-02 04:25:37 · 6 answers · asked by Scott A 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister and her 4 year old want to live in the house the husband wants to move into an apt by himslef that they own who is responsible to pay the mortgage on the martial home. Does she have to pay the full mortgage cuz she cannot afford to

2006-10-02 04:25:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He doesnt understand that girls arent as tough of males...he thinks i should be strong about everything...all I want is a shoulder to cry on sometimes...

2006-10-02 04:25:10 · 9 answers · asked by sk-campbell@sbcglobal.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-02 04:24:19 · 22 answers · asked by mikey 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my best friend's husband works on the ships she only sees him five months of the year, she is now having an affair with one of her friends, i know that she is verly lonely and i try to spend as much time with her as possible, but my husband also needs my attention, must i tell her what she is doing is wrong? or should she decide for herself, i am the only person she confides in.

2006-10-02 04:23:39 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boss is looking for a song she can dance to with her twin sons at her wedding...any ideas?

2006-10-02 04:22:53 · 16 answers · asked by kennedy977 2 in Weddings

2006-10-02 04:22:47 · 19 answers · asked by tami b 1 in Family

hair up or down or what?
Just I have a charity do on Saturday night and I cant decide to have my just below shoulder length hair pinned up or wear it down or half and half or what!!? Its a black tie formal do.
Any advice would be much appreciated! Thx all xx

2006-10-02 04:22:37 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It was a love marriage but we are not together for the past 4 mnths he told every pne that i am having a affair with my boss . My parent say either you have to go back to him or get a divorce and get married to some one else i don know what to do?

2006-10-02 04:21:48 · 6 answers · asked by simran 2 in Marriage & Divorce

is it possible to give a guy a b.j. and he doesnt muc (its backwards) in your mouth ?? my friend wants to know

2006-10-02 04:21:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 04:20:58 · 17 answers · asked by Redd 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

The sister in law is concerned about assets going into probate after my Mom dies. She assumes my Mom is doing nothing. I think there are other concerns that she is not telling me. I understand her concern, but feel this is an issue between me, my siblings and my Mom. I don't know for sure what my Mom is planning, but from some things that she has said, I think she is doing something. At this point my I am not pressing the issue and I am giving my Mom the chance to make the first move. If she doesn't, I or one of my siblings will bring it up when we feel the time is right. It is not my business to tell someone else my Mom's business.

2006-10-02 04:20:25 · 8 answers · asked by Krista 1 in Family

Does anonymity give freedom to lie or to tell the truth?

2006-10-02 04:20:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i told my best friend to kiss me !!!! ( he did ) ......
was this appropriate to do ????

2006-10-02 04:18:32 · 16 answers · asked by kissasiss_7 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you get over someone who you are so in love with......andhe is leaving me.......i am sick and crying and throwing up, how can you get over it when life has revolved around him for 4 years serious answers please

2006-10-02 04:17:59 · 14 answers · asked by maria 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

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2006-10-02 04:17:52 · 2 answers · asked by lofolulu 3 in Singles & Dating

me and my girlfriend broke up yesterday,i was drunk and slept with a girl and my girlfriend found out.it was the biggest mistake of my life,i cant explain why i did it or what is going throu my head.i cant work,i cant eat,i cant sleep.how do i get throu this empty feeling inside?

2006-10-02 04:17:34 · 23 answers · asked by baseball_saenz 2 in Singles & Dating

I was 16yrs old,17 yrs ago.Well 17yrs ago in November.

2006-10-02 04:17:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He had another man to kill her so he could marry his lover because he did not want to divorce his wife because he would have to share his property with his wife.

2006-10-02 04:17:16 · 3 answers · asked by Opal S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A question for Mr. Heart Doctor of course,who is starting to make a name for himself.
I have 2 friends, I would never trade the world for them. However,
my female friend is attracting me more and more. I can hardly shake my thoughts from her. The three of us have ran around for about 8 years. She and I were once more than friends. I tried again to act upon that about a year and a half ago, but she hesitated and pulled away. Now this year, I have been the one hesitating, not sure what my feelings were. Before I had confirmed ( I thought) that she was afraid of commitment, until she got a boyfriend for about 2 weeks, 1 month ago. Now my mind is decided, I do have feelings for her, but...what shall I do?

2006-10-02 04:16:35 · 5 answers · asked by Demosthenes 2 in Singles & Dating

Can he love his girlfriend? can he fall in love with the other girl? Is he a asshole? Is he just in trouble? Can he like two girls? Is he boring with his girlfriend? How could I help him?

2006-10-02 04:16:22 · 26 answers · asked by missllola 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been seeing each other on again off again for 3 years without a commitment to one another. I can't take it anymore, I want to be together and committed. The main reason he hasn't committed to me is my son. The fact that I have a child scares him. But, when I have told him I would walk because he has to accept my son and I, my son is a part of me! Then, he back pedals and starts telling me that my son isn't that big of deal, and maybe one day we will be in a committed relationship...my head is spinning. And I'm in love with this guy-heart and soul.

2006-10-02 04:16:01 · 5 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

How Can I Beat My Wife Without Leaving any Marks or a bruise?
That B IT CH Really Deserves a Good A S S Beating for cheating on me!!!!

2006-10-02 04:15:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-02 04:14:56 · 18 answers · asked by Weezel 1 in Singles & Dating

My story is that I got told I was too nice when I first started going out with girls and they rejected me because of it. This made me very bitter and I deliberately went the other way and became a misogynist. I once had three girlfriends at once and I found that women were giving me constant attention. They fell in love with me even though I treated them with contempt.
I then decided that if these were the rules of the game then I don't want to play anymore. If a good heart isn't what counts with women then women can go to hell.
I'm now bitter, twisted and single and still refusing to play the sick game. Any advice?

2006-10-02 04:14:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 04:14:23 · 7 answers · asked by maria g 1 in Weddings

2006-10-02 04:13:37 · 2 answers · asked by mykzaplyxy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how can i tell if shes up to something..we been 2gether nearly 2 years and doesnt answer when i tell her i love her...any ideas

2006-10-02 04:13:15 · 32 answers · asked by shaun-otd 1 in Singles & Dating