Can he love his girlfriend? can he fall in love with the other girl? Is he a asshole? Is he just in trouble? Can he like two girls? Is he boring with his girlfriend? How could I help him?
2006-10-02 04:16:22 · 26 answers · asked by missllola 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't know which one is you ; the concerned girl - friend, or the other one !!! whichever, I have some possibilities here :
1 - he might be upset from you some how, and he is " teasing " you.
2 - possibly this girl came on to him, and he just can't find the proper way to get rid of her.
3 - if he has fallen in love with that girl, why should he continue to be with you " as a boyfriend " ??
4 - judging him as an asshole depends on how well do you know him, if he is that kind of person who likes to play around, well you better pack and leave.
5 - he might be in trouble, and this girl is " USING " him for some purpose, all you need to do though is to be patient, because he will be telling you eventually what bothers him - if you work on improving the trusting element between you two - !!
But under any circumstances, DON'T YOU EVER make any remarks to him about that girl, or make trouble to the girl directly or indirectly, because you will surely loose him.
Good luck !!
2006-10-02 05:13:55 · answer #1 · answered by Fadi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one might love two people in the same time: a man 2 women, a woman 2 men, it happens all the time. the man caught in the middle usually avoids taking a decision, trying not to hurt anyone, postponing something which will come in the end, as painfully as the waiting period is longer. my experience says that usually he loses both girls. maybe now he doesn't know which one to choose, but when the menace of loosing them will hit him he will know. A saying says that if you love someone you have to set him free- let him go, if he loves you he will be back. if he won't than probably he did found his happiness, which should be enough reason for us to know we did the right thing. is nothing you can do for him now than set him free, and will be better even for you, one way or the other...
2006-10-02 04:34:40 · answer #2 · answered by rcradoi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he can like two girls,he can like as many girls as he wants to,to be friends with,and to get to know lots of other people is what makes the world go around-as long as he doesn't cheat and stays faithfull to his "current" girlfriend-it doesn't help he is dating another girl twice a week along side his "current" though,has to be said:-/
2006-10-02 04:38:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His an asshole, of course he can like two girls, buts its the decent thing to only be with one or none! Someone will end up getting hurt and it wont be him! If you want to help, tell him some home truths about himself, like how his a selfish and inconsiderate!
2006-10-02 04:25:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats up, Danimal. guy i'm so sorry your coping with this immediately. I understand once you adore someone and they betray your believe. Your lady friend knows how undesirable she screwed up. definite, that's dishonest. She regrettably knew what she develop into doing. She must have not in any respect actually have had an risk to visit with her ex and be on my own with him. i'm sorry to assert Danimal she did not love you adequate to maintain her legs closed. You deserve an exceedingly good female and there are a variety of of them available. You sound youthful, so that you nevertheless have time to detect a diamond in the not elementary.. that's time to flow on.. Your lady friend already has! different sensible she don't have even idea about being on my own with a guy she knew she had sexual thoughts in direction of or any thoughts that would want to reason her to be selfish. that's what that's, Danimal.. that's selfishness and also you deserve extra perfect..
2016-12-04 03:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by mehaffey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, stay out of it. it is none of your buisness. If he has a steady girl and is also seeing another then he is cheating. If the girls know about each other then they have no self esteem. But it preety much sounds like he's an asshole.
2006-10-02 04:20:02 · answer #6 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not in love with either one of them. Sure, he likes them both both but that is not love. True love will make him desire one girl only.
You can't help him desire one of those girls. He hasn't found the right "one" yet. You can help him by telling him to leave those girls alone but he probably won't. Everyone likes attention. Hopefully the girls will wisen up and leave him. Yep....an asshole.
2006-10-02 04:23:30 · answer #7 · answered by lofolulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a coward and there is no way you could help him unless he wants to be helps, you cant love two people, what he is doing is playing with people's emotions and most of all he is does not realize this now but he is hurting himself the most. Have a great day
2006-10-02 04:20:04 · answer #8 · answered by Angela C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes an asshole!!! If hes dating someone he shouldnt be dating any other girl unless him and his girlfriend have priorly agreed to an open type relationship.
2006-10-02 04:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless the other woman is his Mom, he's a loser and can't be in love with either girl. However, you don't sound old enough to be in a serious one-on-one long-term relationship. Find someone who wants you and only you; you deserve that.
2006-10-02 04:19:48 · answer #10 · answered by kealey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋