how do you get over someone who you are so in love with......andhe is leaving me.......i am sick and crying and throwing up, how can you get over it when life has revolved around him for 4 years serious answers please
2006-10-02 04:17:59 · 14 answers · asked by maria 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do you care any thing for yourself. If he's leaving I just don't see how can you stop him.just improve yourself for the next time he see you. GOD will sent somebody who cares enough to stay around.STOP MAKING YOURSELF LOVE SICK!
2006-10-02 10:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by sharon j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Starting over is one of the hardest things to do, I remember how hard it was for me when my ex husband left me. I felt all the same feelings you are feeling now, what helped me was staying busy, that will help you keep your mind off things. What do you enjoy, what are some things you use to do before you met him? A hobby will make you feel so much better. If you are religious attend church, also find some good friends you can talk to that can keep you focused on the positive. The library has a few good books that you can read that may make you feel better. OH, and don't listen to the radio too much you don't want to hear sad songs or songs that remind you of your ex. Good luck. Soon you will start to feel better. Time is the only thing that can heal the heart and last but not least be careful not to rebound.
2006-10-02 11:24:34 · answer #2 · answered by jn46036 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to esablish a time line of when you are going to resume your life. If you have been with him for 4 years then you need to take time to grieve for him, you have suffered a loss and it is only natural that you feel devastation but you know that you can not do this forever which is why you need to set a limit, say a week of just crying, throwing up etc then you need to find activities that keep you busy so you dont focus all your energy in to a lost love
2006-10-02 11:27:20 · answer #3 · answered by confusedpatricia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will get you over it. There is no quick way. What I would do is I make a memory of how that person is making feel at this moment and make a decision that I will never let that person do that to me ever again. Forget the good times, remember that when it counted the most, he failed and just quit. You dont want that when you have some real issues later on.
2006-10-02 13:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to understand that it is over in your heart and in your head.
I wish for your sake that there was a quick fix to spare you some pain but there is not.
You must accept that the relationship is over and move on.
Use the time you would normally spend thinking or dong some thing with him to prefect a new hobby or craft. Volunteer you time with a local charity.
This will help you see that there is some thing better out there waiting for you.
Meet new people.
Make new connection in the world.
Once you open you self up to the world out side of this man your heart ache will ease.
2006-10-02 11:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by Ryce Queen 13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard but you have to be strong an move on my ex of 5 years left me my son was 7 months old i was devastated didnt know what to do i got a sitter an went out on the weekends an started enjoyingMY life dont show him he hurt you they get off on that let him see you haven fun even if your not pretend if hes around dance sing laugh get drunk i did after about 7 months of goin out on weekends an haven fun i met someone else it was ackward at first he wasnt robbie but i knew he wasnt comen back he normally did but never stayed gone this long before but the new guy we hung out went on dates eventually moved in together i was in LOVE we ended up married an now have been married for 3 years it could happen to you .. so good luck take my advise call your girlfriends go out have fun an live life you only get one chance make the best of it ..
2006-10-02 11:32:35 · answer #6 · answered by misty w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beer is the only way. But it's got to be good beer. None of the Coors Light crap. Try a La Fin du Monde. One of the best beers in the world. Nothing better than a cold frosty mug!
2006-10-02 11:21:15 · answer #7 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no now heal quick answers to this one. The best thing that helped a friend in the same situation is by keeping busy, always having your friends around, meeting new people (not to date but to get back out socialising). TALK TALK TALK not to wind yourself up but to try and make enough sense out of it to get out. Theres good company and bad, good company are those who help you move to the next step of moving on when you are with someone whop just constantly makes the situation worse continuously thats bad company, we don't want this company.
2006-10-02 11:25:11 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mourn the loss, but prepare yourself for life after he's gone. Write down all you can remember about the relationship. That will help preserve what you went through and give you a reference for future relationships. Finding someone new will help quite a bit.
2006-10-02 11:22:35 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will heal,but you should not let him get the best of you.He will come running back to you and if he does kick him in the ***.girl go out meet new people enjoy your life when he sees how well your keeping yours he'll be stress out thinking about what he lost.
2006-10-02 12:43:22 · answer #10 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋