Family & Relationships - 2 October 2006

I know this person at school and think he may be Gay? I need your considered advice and help. He gets away with things that others boys would not get away with. He is always stroking Boys hair in a manner that seems asthough he is joking?I am unsure if he is though. He cuddles other lads but because it appears in asthough he is doing it as a joke he gets away with it. He calls others "Gay" and slang terms that represent the word occasionally. He touches your hair and strokes it. Not in a way the advertly embarrases the recipient but is seen as a bit of a joke? I dont understand how someone could be straight and yet do such provocative things to the same sex? We have all had some idiot touch another person of the same sex before to embarras them. He is different. How can I find out he is Gay without being overtly obvious?

2006-10-02 04:12:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im a 22/m/white. i have an urban style and look. i wear baggy jeans, tims, j's, have a fade haircut, and have diamonds in my ears. for some reason white girls seem to have a kinda negative reaction to me. they seem to be acting cautious or nervous. i'm not gangsta though. i'm a psych sr in college. i work 40 hrs a week. i don't get it. im a cool guy who loves to clown around n gets along with everyone. but like when i just try and talk to them at school they have this bad reaction. its like they got something against me. i just don't understand why this is?

2006-10-02 04:12:03 · 18 answers · asked by Trojan8408 5 in Friends

things like your birthday, anniversary, or things that your interested in? without sounding whiney, and downplaying your own feelings to suit what they want.

2006-10-02 04:11:27 · 7 answers · asked by MSYUMYUM 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-02 04:11:01 · 17 answers · asked by notyochic 6 in Marriage & Divorce

one time he said I don't know why you pick on me ( He picks on me first most times) He said he's not that ugly

2006-10-02 04:10:49 · 9 answers · asked by Need of help 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-02 04:09:21 · 12 answers · asked by bwanab 1 in Marriage & Divorce

girlfriend?

2006-10-02 04:09:19 · 11 answers · asked by notyochic 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-02 04:08:18 · 9 answers · asked by notyochic 6 in Friends

me and my galfriend are currently apart and i love her, do you people think it will still work out even though we are far apart

2006-10-02 04:07:58 · 34 answers · asked by mikey 1 in Singles & Dating

men always want you when your not single, never when you are single. i guess it's true men always want what they can't have.

2006-10-02 04:07:39 · 12 answers · asked by Angel W 1 in Singles & Dating

questions only?

2006-10-02 04:07:37 · 3 answers · asked by notyochic 6 in Friends

2006-10-02 04:06:49 · 44 answers · asked by notyochic 6 in Family

2006-10-02 04:06:25 · 6 answers · asked by True 1 in Family

2006-10-02 04:06:19 · 11 answers · asked by notyochic 6 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I got into an argument. (I will keep the subject of the argument confidential).I questioned something he had said and he thought I was insenuating something that I was not. (Although what he thought I was insenuating was very harsh). This made him so mad.( I could see where it would've if that had been the case). He told me to shut up and get out of his room. So, I decided I would just leave. I was picking up my clothes I had left in the floor so I could get dressed and leave. He asked what I was doing and I ignored him. I was just going to get my stuff and go. He continued to ask what I was doing. I continued to ignore him. He told me to shut-up and get out of his room right? Yes, so that was what I was doing. He grabbed and and threw me out of his room. I don't know if I should be worried about this or not. I know what he thought I was insenuating about him was awful. But I feel like he should have asked if that's what I was saying before he grabbed me. Abuse or not?

2006-10-02 04:05:24 · 12 answers · asked by Dsoftball 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Sometimes its so nice to find some of your old friends to reunite with,,you wondering how they are doing, if they have kids,, if they are married,,, I graduated in 1988,,so my friends had to graduate in 1988-1990,,one of the name is Cheryl Witherspoon,Calvin Jackson,Micheal Jacobs,Indelita Woodley,Paula Stubblefield,April Beverly,,if any of yall out there send a message to your home girl,,,,,write back so i can give you my email are phone number

2006-10-02 04:04:37 · 1 answers · asked by Sweetpea 3 in Friends

ok so my ex broke up with me 3 months ago its been really hard on me we were together almost 7 years...he broke up with me for another girl whose 18 he 27.if there were some issues in your 7 year relationship would you try to work on them or just get out??(no they werent totally serious issues just about further commitment and growing up)...so he is with someone else but when they got together he told her so many lies about him why do people do that? i dunno do you think maybe he just doesnt want to grow up thats why he is with someone thats so much younger

2006-10-02 04:03:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 04:02:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have a friend who is turning 40 in November and would like to give her a surprise birthday bash. Any idea's and also theme's (as in fancy dress). I am clueless but she is a special friend and I would like to do this for her.

2006-10-02 04:02:34 · 3 answers · asked by Vonnie S 4 in Friends

Me and a close guy friend have been good friends for 10 months now. We met very randomly and clicked from the first day.We're best friends, we do everything together, and recently have been living the lives of a couple, but aren't.Since I've met him, I haven't dated anyone.I've been comfortable with what we share.We've become intimate and the feelings have escalated.He's jealous of my male friends and I'm jealous of his female friends.We haven't been spending as much time lately and I seem to take it out on him.We got in a big argument a little over a week ago and he decided that he was tired of all the jealousy fights and would just give up on making the friendship work and sent a text explaining it, and asking me to please leave him alone.I did just that, but sent a heartfelt e-mail to end on good terms.It's been a week and 3 days and he finally called me.After we hung up,he text,I'm not mad at you.I thought I lost him, but he came back,do you think we could possibly start somethin

2006-10-02 04:01:55 · 12 answers · asked by Charlies_Angel 1 in Friends

My 13 year old daughter is a very attractive girl and she recently started wearing thong panties. I am a single father and am worried about this. I confronted her and she says she likes wearing em and wants to continue. Sometimes I get kind of sick cause I can see them sticking out from her jeans but she seems to me to be too young to wear them. I really dont feel comfortable talking to her about thong panties and not to wear them but I know exactly why she shouldnt. I am a young father and a man in my thirties and I know how turned on and horny I get when I see a woman wearing a thong on the beach or see a thong stick out of a girls back. It is a major turn on. I can't tell u how many times I have masturbated to girls that I have seen wearing them. I am just afraid some teenage boy is doing the same thing to my daughter. It makes me wonder if I should say no thongs till she is 18 and old enough to make her own decisions about them and when she is legally an adult. I dont know though.

2006-10-02 04:01:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

baby shower

2006-10-02 04:00:30 · 9 answers · asked by Sweetsister 1 in Family

if a man shake some time 3 times in day. some day once, also stop in between for some days it cause any problem to health

2006-10-02 04:00:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well me and my ex were together for about a year and a half. I did some stuoid things in the relationship like gettind moody about pathetic things and so on. 3 weeks ago he split up with me. He said he didnt feel the same anymore. I tried talking to him but he was just bein horrible and didnt want to know. Last night i saw him for the first time since we split. It was quite hard. He explained that he had reasons for ending it and we hav split up before and i said i would change and things would be for the better but it never really went that way. I want to state i was not a bad girlfriend but he feels i took him for granted. He also did that to me sometimes. He says he has been out with me and done that now and he just wants to be friends. I really feel upset about this because it seems like he doesnt want to get back or something stopping him. He says he does still care and does think about things but he wants me as a friend what would be everyones best advice? i miss him alot :(

2006-10-02 04:00:08 · 10 answers · asked by moi 1 in Singles & Dating

how do u kiss a guy... ive never been kissed and i am just wondering.. im 15.. and i cant ask my mom cuz shes not here

2006-10-02 03:58:55 · 7 answers · asked by Maya A 1 in Singles & Dating

a woman's place is in the kitchen and the bedroom...and that is it!!!! i am so sick of this crap. just serve your masters and keep us happy.

2006-10-02 03:58:41 · 27 answers · asked by barnabus finkle 1 in Singles & Dating

also: how long into your relationship did you get married? and why?

2006-10-02 03:58:10 · 8 answers · asked by Milka 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-02 03:57:55 · 10 answers · asked by NonePlusTwo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Where can one go about finding information about email/snail mail pals?

2006-10-02 03:57:45 · 5 answers · asked by Celicia S 2 in Friends

2006-10-02 03:57:39 · 6 answers · asked by Susan K 1 in Singles & Dating