ok so my ex broke up with me 3 months ago its been really hard on me we were together almost 7 years...he broke up with me for another girl whose 18 he 27.if there were some issues in your 7 year relationship would you try to work on them or just get out??(no they werent totally serious issues just about further commitment and growing up)...so he is with someone else but when they got together he told her so many lies about him why do people do that? i dunno do you think maybe he just doesnt want to grow up thats why he is with someone thats so much younger
2006-10-02 04:03:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's definitely too immature for you. See, your thinking things out and trying to rationalize what's happening in your life and asking yourself what the next or right move is. Do you think that he is doing the same or is he just blundering through life doing what makes HIM happy? To leave you after seven years for an eighteen year old is a sure sign of incurable immaturity, selfishness and naivety. Take advantage of the opportunity the boy provided and go get yourself a MAN.
2006-10-02 04:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by Sean 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First he is telling lies about himself and his life to her so he looks better to her. He's apparently not happy with what he has done in his life so far so he wants to make it look better just to impress! Second- consider yourself lucky the man in out of your life. ANYONE who would just walk away from a 7 year relationship without trying to fix things is NOT even worth the effort and you deserve soooo much better than that. I know u r hurting alot right now- all of us would be in your place- but try to think of all the BAD things in your relationship too-think of the things that went wrong with him- remember- no just the good! He was a creep for leaving for some supper hussy in the first place and u deserve a man who will love u and respect you and he is not it! YOU CAN DO BETTER!
2006-10-02 04:28:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. Don't bother with him. He sounds like an immature loser that isn't ready for committment. You deserve someone better. Just watch. He'll be with her and realize that he's missing out on real love. 18? She will not be ready to love......he'll come crawling back. The question is, would you take him back??? You'll have to decide that for yourself. Is there a chance that he could do this again, get cold feet, etc....????????
2006-10-02 04:07:50 · answer #3 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, I was married once and my wife left because we married so young and she thought she had missed something. Leaving she said, I need to find myself. 2 years later she wanted to come back to me. I told her that I never wanted to be needed, I just wanted to be wanted and you didn't The answer was no. What I'm saying is, you're better off with out this person. You sound like the grown up. Your Mr. right is out there, just be patient.
2006-10-02 05:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by noclosecalls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is over..
He was a waste of 7 years of your life..
Make a better choice next time...
Are you young & attractive enough to set your sites on
becoming a "Trophy Wife" ?
2006-10-02 04:07:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently, he is your "ex" for some very good reasons -- he is immature, and a liar. Stop obsessing over him. Take charge of your own life, and find someone compatible with you.
2006-10-02 04:06:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were pressuring him to commit to something he wasn't ready for. Try again with someone else.
2006-10-02 04:08:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's immature and looking for someone that young because they are on his level. You will find someone new hun and they will be much better :)
2006-10-02 04:07:12 · answer #8 · answered by Pretty Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not ready to grow up. Move on and find someone who deserves you.
2006-10-02 04:07:00 · answer #9 · answered by honeyluv_2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not the question of younger or elder, but the variety. normally men prefer variety. o.k. keep it up. tell him to be with you for better living.
2006-10-02 04:09:05 · answer #10 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋