2006-10-02 04:11:01 · 17 answers · asked by notyochic 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marriage is 3 Ringcycle
Engagement Ring
Wedding Ring
Suffer Ring
2006-10-02 04:12:50 · answer #1 · answered by Didie C 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I didn't think it was at first, but soon afterward, when he started acting like a sh*t over little stuff, i should have left. But I didn't. Now I've been married for nine years.
I separated from him this past May and am going back to him this month to try one last time.
If it doesn't work after this year, I'm divorcing him. I'm in counselling now.
So many people on here say "what was it that made you marry him in the first place". Sometimes that changes after marriage.
We are really good friends and we have fun in our home, just our love life stinks and he was neglecting me for awhile. He's trying and so am I, so we will see. Good luck.
2006-10-02 12:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For myself, Yes. And I am divorced twice so there is your answer. I am not the marring type. I get enclosed and feel sufficated for no reason and then I end up taking it out on the guy.
I am in a long relationship now but I am not married and just claim it as domestic partnership. I am comfortable with that. I don't like actually being married. Its too permanant
2006-10-02 11:14:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course not!! Why would you go through with a wedding if you didn't truly believe you wanted to spend the rest of your life with the person you are marrying? If you don't love him, or don't believe it's the best thing to happen to you in your life don't marry him. Try thinking about it like this. Can you imagine your life without the other person in it? How does it make you feel? I knew I had to marry my husband because the thought of life without him was impossible and heartbreaking to imagine. If you get married, you are taking vows that last the rest of your life. If you don't know that you want to grow old with this person, don't marry them.
2006-10-02 11:17:13 · answer #4 · answered by kealey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That happened to you? I can't believe that anybody will get married thinking it is a mistake. And if you are married, and think it is a mistake, do something about it. You deserve to be happy. Good luck.
2006-10-02 11:15:28 · answer #5 · answered by elgil 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes I was way too young to begin with and I believe the only reason I did get married was because we had a baby and I wasn't working and had no support of my family. Yes it was a mistake, everyone makes them, that's how we learn. Get on with your life and move on. I did.
2006-10-02 11:13:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I went through a period like that and found that I wasn't trying to make the marriage work. I was having some major issues with a poor sexlife, but then I got some advise here and started trying harder to make my marraige much better. It works and we are both happier.
2006-10-02 11:15:29 · answer #7 · answered by Paka 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I knew it wasn't what I really wanted , but didn't know that it was truly wrong . I figured it out, the first time he actually hit me. I knew then that it was wrong, but at that time didn't know how to get out of it. It took me 30 years to learn. Yes I was slow. But I know now that if you are not completely sure that something is right then I am not doing it.
2006-10-02 11:24:27 · answer #8 · answered by oddbutterfly1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No-but the first 2 ended up that way.
2006-10-02 11:13:30 · answer #9 · answered by bllorr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
never ever to this day i cherish every moment of it a beautiful world living with the one u love and longed enriched by love understanding caring and sharing,the basic foundation that helps to build astrong and lasting wedded life never think u r right give your partner the due respect and freedom and he or she will be yours to have and to behold for the rest of your life.
2006-10-02 11:17:05 · answer #10 · answered by zelmacreado 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋