2006-10-02 04:09:21 · 12 answers · asked by bwanab 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You call it quits when you are trying and the other person isn't.
2006-10-02 04:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two people to make or break a marriage. If you are the one trying you need to sit down with your spouse and say I want this relationship to work but I can not do it alone, find out if he/she wants the same things you do and how you can achieve the goal if you do. If not you know it is over and you can move forward with no regrets knowing you made the attempt to salvage the relationship.
2006-10-02 11:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by confusedpatricia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could always go for marriage counseling try all your options before giving up if you truely still love your spouse i think all marriages have there up an downs my husband an i argue we get frustrated but i know we love each other an its just been a bad year an it will all work out in the end good luck hope everthing works out for you
2006-10-02 11:13:06 · answer #3 · answered by misty w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please please please don't give up. It's worth it to struggle through. Sometimes you have to carry him in it...and sometimes he will carry you!!! Especially if there are kids....oh don't give up!!!! Have you ever read anything by Townsend and Cloude??? Freakin brillant. There is a need or needs somewhere are that aren't being met and well boundaries that are being crossed. You will learn that putting your foot down on somethings will make the relationship actually healthier. Seek some wise council. You can work through anything...this is your life, your love......you can nurish it back to health....I will so say a prayer for you. Have hope!! There is a good reason too.
2006-10-02 11:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by Reese 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am going through the very same thing i hope you find a solution im trying to. Buts its hard especially if they they dont talk to you about anything or the way they feel or work harder at a relationship.
2006-10-02 11:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by Sandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup. Marriage like anyother relationship is a two way street. if you've done everything you're capable to reach oot to your partner and he/she has not reciprocated then it's time to move on.
2006-10-02 11:14:47 · answer #6 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iduno i am going through that same question right now and i have decided not to call it quits until i have exhausted all of my other options....then if that dont work i will just have to cut my ptions
2006-10-02 11:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by MSYUMYUM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is try, if he isn't trying then you need to move on. You can not fix it by yourself .
2006-10-02 11:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by Htnspyc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU LEAVE. And you tall them it's over and tall them way. Then if they don't believe you then that's on them.
2006-10-02 11:14:02 · answer #9 · answered by Derric K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like its over to me.
2006-10-02 12:09:04 · answer #10 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋