I know this person at school and think he may be Gay? I need your considered advice and help. He gets away with things that others boys would not get away with. He is always stroking Boys hair in a manner that seems asthough he is joking?I am unsure if he is though. He cuddles other lads but because it appears in asthough he is doing it as a joke he gets away with it. He calls others "Gay" and slang terms that represent the word occasionally. He touches your hair and strokes it. Not in a way the advertly embarrases the recipient but is seen as a bit of a joke? I dont understand how someone could be straight and yet do such provocative things to the same sex? We have all had some idiot touch another person of the same sex before to embarras them. He is different. How can I find out he is Gay without being overtly obvious?
2006-10-02 04:12:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds like a touchy feely person, but that does not make him gay. Does he have a hair fetish??
2006-10-02 04:16:24 · answer #1 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's fair to say he is most definitely gay. He's trying to get close to boys by stroking their hair and pretending he's doing it as a joke so they don't suspect anything. Also, he's also making a point of calling others gay which takes the focus off him for a while. He needs to stop harassing others and admit to himself that he is gay. Why not try sitting down and talking to him openly about it. There's no shame in being gay. He'll be a far happier individual in the long-run by admitting to himself and others that he's gay
2006-10-02 04:43:44 · answer #2 · answered by trog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay or not, he is sexually harrassing people and violating their personal space. He shouldn't touch people for any reason. Seriously. He has a mental problem or doesn't care for others' feelings. And to use "gay" the way I hate to see others use it...his behavior is terrible...it's...sooooo gay...lame...inexcusable.
He's giving gay guys a really bad name!
2006-10-02 04:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I dont think hes gay, just over friendly. Stop worrying about it, it doesnt concern you whether he is gay or not.
2006-10-02 04:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by Annie M 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes he is gay, if you have any other questions, email me at supernerd_2themax@yahoo.com
2006-10-02 04:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by Chase H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to seduce him. Its the only way to be sure.
2006-10-02 04:24:34 · answer #6 · answered by pewnee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
does it matter if he is gay or not?> just keep your butt to the wall
2006-10-02 04:44:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him if he's gay, geez.
2006-10-02 04:25:13 · answer #8 · answered by Elizabeth 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is Gay!!!
2006-10-02 04:39:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋