Well me and my ex were together for about a year and a half. I did some stuoid things in the relationship like gettind moody about pathetic things and so on. 3 weeks ago he split up with me. He said he didnt feel the same anymore. I tried talking to him but he was just bein horrible and didnt want to know. Last night i saw him for the first time since we split. It was quite hard. He explained that he had reasons for ending it and we hav split up before and i said i would change and things would be for the better but it never really went that way. I want to state i was not a bad girlfriend but he feels i took him for granted. He also did that to me sometimes. He says he has been out with me and done that now and he just wants to be friends. I really feel upset about this because it seems like he doesnt want to get back or something stopping him. He says he does still care and does think about things but he wants me as a friend what would be everyones best advice? i miss him alot :(
2006-10-02 04:00:08 · 10 answers · asked by moi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's just not that into you anymore. He's given you some tries, but it hasn't worked out for him. Clearly, he has let go of the idea of having a romantic relationship with you. To save yourself a lot of pain, it would be good for you to give up the idea of having a romantic relationship with him too.
2006-10-02 04:03:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is based on my experience and the experiences of others who have came to me with the same problem. A person is only going to put up with and give you a certain amount of chances before they write you off. From what you said, it sounds like you ended up being all talk and no action. In my opinion as a guy, one thing I think we dont like someone who talks and never does anything. If you dont have any intentions of doing something dont say it and just tell us you arent a certain way or you dont wanna change. We dont like to be told one thing, expect it to happen and then it doesnt. We do it too i'm sure so it goes both ways. My advice is to leave him alone and give him some space. If he wants to get back with you the space will make him realize that otherwise move on.
2006-10-02 11:10:09 · answer #2 · answered by bayougigolo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally believe hes probably moved on an theres someone else if he just wants to be friends put your feelings aside an go with it show him you can be fun understanding an so on dont give the satifaction that hes hurt you offer to hang out with him an go from there dont mention you want him of that you care just go out with him an show him you have changed have you ever heard the saying if you love something let it go an if it comes back it was meant to be? let him go let him have his time go out with him an show him wants he wants if he truely loves an misses you hell come around an be back if not he never really loved you good luck hope this helps
2006-10-02 11:06:58 · answer #3 · answered by misty w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it. The hurt will go away. If he doesn't want to be with you, he is not going to be happy with you even if you coax him back. Your life together would always be miserable. Forget him, look for someone who can tolerate your moods. You might also try counseling or talk to your doctor about mood swings severe enough to interfere with your relationships. There is help. Good Luck.
2006-10-02 11:09:25 · answer #4 · answered by Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i av been throught the same things, me and my ex was together for about the same time as u and ur ex we always used to split up and get bak together over stupid things, But then it came one day we finally finshed i cried fro days and days and weeks but u just gotta think u r guna meet so many people and you will get over him no matter how hard it seems now
keep ya chin up
xx
2006-10-02 11:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him be
give him space
reflect on ur past relationship and figure what went wrong and how can u improve ur self and not do the same mistake u did
leave the baggage behind and if it meant to be u guys will see eachother in the future
kee ya head up
2006-10-02 11:08:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is going to take some time but you will get over him. If he wants to be friends then I think that is great. Me and my ex are still good friends.
2006-10-02 11:07:54 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems hes pretty set on not ever getting back with you. theres nothing you can do about that. i say you just move on. its the best thing to do right now. good luck.
2006-10-02 11:03:57 · answer #8 · answered by Gina Smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you do, you was with him for a year and a half, it will take you some time to get over him
2006-10-02 11:04:15 · answer #9 · answered by Pumpkin Nickel Bread 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he wants some temporary space
2006-10-02 11:05:40 · answer #10 · answered by aldo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋