how can i tell if shes up to something..we been 2gether nearly 2 years and doesnt answer when i tell her i love her...any ideas
2006-10-02 04:13:15 · 32 answers · asked by shaun-otd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is probably screwing them as well...
2006-10-02 04:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by Clints_wench 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How,s It Hanging Man Like They Say Move On I,m 34 & Been Married For 9 Years So Get A New Woman & Get A Hint
2006-10-02 04:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by doughboy1536 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first reaction is to tell you to chill out; just because she has guy friends doesn't mean much. Unless, she just met these guys and this is a recently new development.
The biggest concern I would have is that she does not answer when you tell her you love her. That is not a good sign. It sounds like she is moving on. Spending time with other guys (several or one specific guy?) and detaching herself from you relationship indicates that she is moving on or already has. You need to sit her down and ask flat out if she intends to end this or keep up the game. It is so hard but you may need to move on. You don't have to wait to get dumped; make a choice for yourself and go with it.
2006-10-02 04:18:44 · answer #3 · answered by mollymolls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's obviously avoiding that little phrase. If she isn't saying it back then there is something up. You will need to talk to her and ask her why she isn't saying it back. Some people have a hard time saying those 3 three words, but then again it may be because she doesn't love you the same way....
2006-10-02 04:48:08 · answer #4 · answered by Tasha H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through the same ordal i think something is going own so i'm fine to move on with my life and file for a divorce she moved out the house to go live on her own and everything some women have something to hide and say things like we are unsecure, and that they always hung around guys and can't stand girls i don't know what the deal is about that one but you find out let me know too.
2006-10-02 04:16:37 · answer #5 · answered by trueexposure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm.....it sounds like she's moving on. I'm sorry but, that is how i have treated the guys I'm tired of. I would point blank ask her what is bothering her. Tell her how you feel. It's better for you to break up and meet someone else then sit around depressed about here.
2006-10-02 04:16:33 · answer #6 · answered by lee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to be straight up and ask her why she prefers their company and not yours and why she isn't responding to your I love you's, I find it fishy but you will only be able to find out the truth if you ask...It's truly what you need to do, b/c if shes not willing to give you the time or affection you deserve as her boyfriend then shoot she should stay with one of her little friends so that you can find someone that really loves you and is willing to devote time to you and respond with love!
2006-10-02 04:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't look good.
has she suddenly started going out more?, has she stopped telling you she loves you? or has she always been that way?. Chances are that you need to talk and make time for each other or what's the point in been in a relationship where only your putting in the effort.
2006-10-02 04:16:35 · answer #8 · answered by Heather 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should do the same, go out regular with your mates and don't come home til the day after, she might get jealous and realise that shes not giving you the tlc you need, if she doesn't let her go.
2006-10-02 04:17:46 · answer #9 · answered by stevo132001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but it sounds like she thinks your boring her. Give her some excitement and maybe she will come home. If that doesn't work I think you should end it. There is no sure way of knowing if she is straying other than asking.
2006-10-02 04:15:48 · answer #10 · answered by missyloowho 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her tell her you love her so much and ask her if she loves you to.Her guy friends are probably just friends my boyfriend knows i like to hang out with my guy friends and he usually tags along and has alot of fun!
2006-10-02 04:16:08 · answer #11 · answered by halgee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋