My story is that I got told I was too nice when I first started going out with girls and they rejected me because of it. This made me very bitter and I deliberately went the other way and became a misogynist. I once had three girlfriends at once and I found that women were giving me constant attention. They fell in love with me even though I treated them with contempt.
I then decided that if these were the rules of the game then I don't want to play anymore. If a good heart isn't what counts with women then women can go to hell.
I'm now bitter, twisted and single and still refusing to play the sick game. Any advice?
2006-10-02 04:14:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont give up, there are women, girls out there who love a kind thoughtful, generous man. Keep youre good heart cos some1 out there would love to hold it close.
2006-10-02 04:18:33 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I hope this isn't my boyfriend who is asking this question!?!
I'm sorry you feel this way though :(
I love nice guys, I don't have boyfriends for the sake of it, I do it because I like them and would like to have more/longer relationships with them, so for me nice guys are the only type for me.
I'm sorry I can't advise you though, just find a nice male friend you can help you untwist a bit at a time :) good luck!!
2006-10-02 04:20:58 · answer #2 · answered by bummy cheeks 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Those are the rules as sick as they are.
Be nice and respectful to woman = getting used and dumped.
Treat them like trash = Getting sex anytime you want and they don't dump you. They stay around forever!
End result = It's better to just be single and alone then have to be a monster just to be with women.
-Jax6213
2006-10-02 04:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Nice guy or bad boy, just be yourself. If you are being something that you are not, you will never be happy with anything or anyone, and someone can't love someone they don't know. I hope this helps you. Remember, first be true to thy-self.
2006-10-02 04:45:24 · answer #4 · answered by noclosecalls 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ur going to just have to do what i did and wait it out. Any girl who doesn't want you for you isn't worth it, but there are sure to be some good ones out there
2006-10-02 04:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by Buddha 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
be yourself.
2006-10-02 04:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by prince47 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋