we are about to get married and he just told me dat and i really love him alot but he lied to me when i asked him the first time what should i do should i call of the engagement or should i let it slide cause i got 1 kid but when he asked me i told him and he lied to me
2006-10-02 04:26:04 · 13 answers · asked by MsTop10 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You might well wonder what other little surprises he has in store for you. Don't call off the engagement, but delay the wedding until he can assure you that he hasn't held out on anything else.
Also you might want to know what his plans are for these two kids, & how these plans are going to affect your future with him.
2006-10-02 04:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thing is, does he take care of those kids? Like do child support and all that. Because if he doesn't thats probably the reason he lied to you about it. Figuring if he told you the truth then you would make him do the right thing. But if he does take care of them, he probably didn't want that part of his life affecting the life that he'll be starting with you. Though a real man would hav fessed up before now about having kids.
2006-10-02 04:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He waited until you were engaged to tell you about his two kids? This is something you mention on the first or second date. There's a reason he hid it from you. And he's a sneaky bastard. Cut him off and go get some new man.
2006-10-02 04:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least put off the wedding.
Take him with you to premarital counseling and iron out all the lies. Then decide if you can trust him for the REST OF YOUR LIFE.
2006-10-02 04:29:24 · answer #4 · answered by lofolulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he started with a lie, do you think their is not more
also he most be ratten father if you guys are together and you are his future but never try to get you to meet the children
where are they
Well think about that for your future what if you have children together what kind of a father will he be
Can you forgive him for the lie
2006-10-02 04:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be with a guy who lies about something so important. It's like your relationship is based on a lie. What else don't you know about him?
2006-10-02 04:30:23 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a pretty big fib. I would probably put off the wedding until you are sure you can trust him.
2006-10-02 04:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was not up front with you he most likely looking for a baby sit er and sex partner i would look for some one else
2006-10-02 04:34:58 · answer #8 · answered by oyster bay bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you aren't ready to get married. and who knows what else hes not telling you!!
2006-10-02 04:28:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't start your marriage on a lie.
2006-10-02 04:28:28 · answer #10 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋