The sister in law is concerned about assets going into probate after my Mom dies. She assumes my Mom is doing nothing. I think there are other concerns that she is not telling me. I understand her concern, but feel this is an issue between me, my siblings and my Mom. I don't know for sure what my Mom is planning, but from some things that she has said, I think she is doing something. At this point my I am not pressing the issue and I am giving my Mom the chance to make the first move. If she doesn't, I or one of my siblings will bring it up when we feel the time is right. It is not my business to tell someone else my Mom's business.
2006-10-02 04:20:25 · 8 answers · asked by Krista 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell her what you told us. Sounds reasonable.
2006-10-02 04:23:01 · answer #1 · answered by amdstreit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her reasonably. Tell her you understand her concern about probate and you feel the same way, but you feel you want your mom to decide on her own. Also let her know that if you don't feel your mother is doing anything then you or one of your siblings will broach the subject with your mother. Let her know that you understand her concern, but that you and your siblings are aware of the situation and you will handle it.
2006-10-02 04:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by Megan G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly in case you tell him, i do not assume your sister to be perfect thrilled with you for it, in spite of the indisputable fact that, as you stated if she is going to inform she will be able to go away him then theoretically she does no longer extremely recommendations. in case you do not tell him, he will locate out ultimately some way or yet another, yet that could want to placed a scar on him and if I were him then i imagine i'd truly locate out from a chum than some thing else. He also has the right to carry close. on the different hand, it isan't precisely any of your business enterprise and doubtless both would get excitement from it in case you stay out of it. in the adventure that your nonetheless uncertain I recommend questioning about the guidelines and the end results of them and choose what's optimum. good success.
2016-11-25 22:30:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is none of her business, then do not discuss the matter with her. Do not tell her your plans or your feelings about the situation. Whenever you have to meet about it, do not include the sister-in-law. Just keep her out of it. If she asks questions, give her broad answers or tell her that it is too personal to discuss.
2006-10-02 04:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by Joe K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she just trying to be helpful? Does she have wisdom and experience to offer, or is she just pushy and nosy? That is a tricky area to work with... Perhaps you should sit down with your sister in law and listen to what she has to say. You may get some pearls of wisdom from her and then she may stop talking about it.
2006-10-02 04:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like that! "My mom's estate planning is none of your business....back off!. I do agree, you do not want it going to probate. Big headache!
2006-10-02 04:23:16 · answer #6 · answered by shaman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds very nosy and just tell her to mind her own business or have your brother do it. It is none of her business.
2006-10-02 05:30:20 · answer #7 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have Your Brother Talk To Her.
2006-10-02 04:26:14 · answer #8 · answered by mks 7-15-02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋