It was a love marriage but we are not together for the past 4 mnths he told every pne that i am having a affair with my boss . My parent say either you have to go back to him or get a divorce and get married to some one else i don know what to do?
2006-10-02 04:21:48 · 6 answers · asked by simran 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i dont have a affair with my boss is 35 and i am 21 he just said it becoz i told him that i wont allow his mother in my house as she is very rude and he wanted to leave his job also . i told him if he keep up his job i allow his mom to come and stay with us that when he started say this ****
I am still working with my boss and stay at my parent place. My mom thinks that i am a burdemn on them
2006-10-02 04:36:14 · update #1
IN this one I would advise you not take your parent advise
1-instead of trying to get you back he is going around life a child to ruin your good name
2-why do you need to find someone so soon
3- you should take time to get to know you so you don't repeat whatever happen that make the 1st relationship not to have work
4-it is your life not your parent you don't need to be attach to someone to be happy
*if you parents are giving you that advise because you have move in with them maybe it time for you to get out of their home
Good luck
2006-10-02 04:27:57 · answer #1 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well did you have an affair with your boss?? Thats one issue to work out. If he ruined your name over nothing, then you got to tackle that with him. If you did have something even flirty....you might want to seek out WHY that happened and come up with a plan for faithfulness and then talk to him about it. Is he a good man?? You could run the risk of having to marry a man who seems good but is really selfish and mean.....you don't want to be stuck in that...and it be a second marriage. TRY your best to solve the first one.
2006-10-02 04:25:42 · answer #2 · answered by Reese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, they are right. You need to decide what you want to do.
What do you want to do? Stay married and go back to him or get a divorce. the choice is yours.
2006-10-02 04:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't listen to my parents because it is your life and you can decide what to do on your own. If you live w/ your parents get the HECK out of that situation and move in with a friend.
2006-10-02 04:25:24 · answer #4 · answered by bor_rabnud 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know sorry for bad knews but I think that he dont love you!because if he dont belive you and he didnt came to talk with he is
judas!=)leave him!
2006-10-02 04:28:48 · answer #5 · answered by Nargiz_S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the divorce, and marry again
2006-10-02 04:25:49 · answer #6 · answered by boiling boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋