Family & Relationships - 2 October 2006

Mobile phone ex girlfriend called!?
My 19 y/o boyfriend ( I am 24 ) received a call from a girl today on our way back from me picking him up from college;. He didn’t pick up the phone but at first lied to me about who it was he said it was a friend of his from class then about 10 mins later told me he lied and that it was an ex of his. Later on that day he was showing me a previous missed call from a friend of his and I saw the name of the caller before. It was his ex and he told me the truth and all but the name read “ Mariam YUM YUM “ I don’t know what to do. Should I bring it up to him??? Do I even have a right to do so? Sometimes when I tell him stuff he always says Im over reacting should I just say to myself that its just a name on a mobile phone; that’s it????? And if I should confront him how should I do it???/

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32 minutes ago
hey I have decided to send him a message on his mobile that reads the following let me know...what u think i wont send it for another hour or so when i read responses
My message would read:
Adam, Yesterday when You were showing me that your friend had given you a missed call. Proof that you weren’t lying again about Mariam calling you I happen to notice that you listed Mariam YUM YUM??? That’s an odd last name for an ex girlfriend, so I assumed it was a nick name kind of how you list mine as Suzy.Darlin.
Well I just wanted to let you know this without it being an argument. Unless you learn to let go of your past relationships we cant move forward with ours. Also all those pictures of those girls you slept with in your phone need to go too.
When you decide to delete all this from your phone and life, give me a call.
Peace

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