how can a man kiss his wife tell her that he loves her then go out and sleep with another woman that is older and unattractive over and over knowing if hiswife would find out it would brake her heart and destroy his marriage. no one wins here so why do it?
2006-10-02 17:06:06 · 20 answers · asked by teeny r 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Easiest way to say this is because we are men! Believe it or not it is not the prize we get but the chase that we enjoy, men have the attention span of houseflies, and we really like feeling that we are special. It is like men think of sex 216 times a day and we get bored very easy. Keep us occupied (just like children) and we will love you forever.
2006-10-02 17:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by Mark B 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well actually, I was. I was extremely satisfied with who I was with. If I wasn't, I really doubt I would have spent years showing her how much I love her and how I want to be with her for the rest of my life. I would say the reason a lot of men don't is actually because they are insecure most of the time for many reasons that do not justify the mistakes they make.
2006-10-02 17:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know why because all men feel they have to prove that im the man to me they aint ****.but seriously i think any man who could have the heart to break a heart is not worth being with. why waste your time move on !do you know how many nice guys are looking for a real good woman but if you never go out and find them they not gona look for you you ever heard of that pharse seek and you will find well girl start looking lol because men now a days are just not men anymore
2006-10-02 17:15:28 · answer #3 · answered by Maria M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have classified all men in the same category but we are not all the same. I was married for 18 years and faithful to the end but she wasn't. Since then she has figured out what she had but has been around the block so much that it makes me wonder who I really married. But then again she is 45 so what's the deal with a mid life crisis with a woman that makes her think she has to have anybody and everybody when she reaches this age?
2006-10-02 17:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by sinfulways44 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Human nature my dear!! Men must propogate and be merry--obviously the threat of you leaving him and the consequences thereof will not matter financially or physically, henceforth there is nothing for him to lose therefore he goes for it!! Listen I'm not trying to be a prick-I'm just a man. What I really think is that you need to sit his *** down and have the "conversation" that has'nt been there. You know what the problem is --figure out a way to get over your own tendancies and deal with it!!--Good luck!
2006-10-02 17:21:39 · answer #5 · answered by scottyurb 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe some men think of their wives as a 'classic book'. Read her cover to cover and everything inbetween. Still a classic, still likes to poke his head in every now and then to see if the words or dialogue have changed any, hehe but it's still the same. So, he finds a best seller with a great cover and wants to see inside, read a few chapters. ;) ahaha!
2006-10-02 17:11:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men like strange. Marriage is the death of sex. Maybe he doesn't get any now that he is married. You would be surprised at how many women think they are having plenty of sex but are doing it once a month or less. I was in the same boat. I could count the amount of sex in a year on one hand. Turned out my wife was gay.Then again maybe he just likes strange.
2006-10-02 17:12:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why are females (some) by no skill happy with a guy who works, makes particular the charges are paid and does dishes? perhaps your face is prettier than your soul. If paying for shoes became into seen cheating all females could be answerable for adultery.
2016-12-26 08:03:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are insecure creatures and that is way they cheat they lack something at home and look for something that isn't a hassle
they like no complications in life they look for ms perfect and when it isn't perfect no more they flee like the dogs they are . just insecure and they feel lame an empty they are selfish pigs
2006-10-02 17:30:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so sad, especially if you are devoted to him. Some men need more than one woman. Does that make it right? No. He goes with her because she is older and she doesn't tempt him to leave his family and possessions. Maybe he ought to be told his wife is going to do the same thing and see what he has to say. I'd be afraid of getting STD's or HIV from them.
2006-10-02 17:10:29 · answer #10 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋