Has any of you waited around for your ex., and actually got back together. ?
Has any of you got back together with your ex after 6 months or longer (when the time you two split up she/he wanted nothing to do with you), and actually got back together with in time?
Is it worth the waiting (waiting on true love)?
When they wanted nothing to do with you when they split up and you thought you had lost that person for good, you actually got back together again after a long time?
Is any of this possible or has it happened to any of you?
I would love you guys to share your stories with me. And also answer my questions
Ones who have experienced this, tell me your stories.
Guys, I have dated alot and just let them go at times. This time instead of moveing on, I am going to be strong. This one is the Love of my life and I believe is my soul mate.
It hurts like Hell and Burns inside, but that is true love that is burning inside me.And I do know good things come to those who wait.
2006-10-02 17:00:16 · 9 answers · asked by stephen 1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I thought I had found my true love. It ended suddenly and I waited and fought to get him back. I did get him back... I married him too. All this time I let MY feelings confuse the reality of the situation. We are divorced because he cheated on me, but at the heart of it, I should have let him go. If he/she felt the same about you, you wouldn't be in the situation. Soulmates don't leave for 6 months. I wish I would have let him go, because he knew what I wouldn't admit, he just didn't feel the same. It might work for some, but my advice is to find someone that will treat you with the love and respect you give and deserve.
2006-10-02 17:05:17 · answer #1 · answered by girlnextdoor409 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bet, it hurts like hell and burns inside.
Doubly so, too, when you know she is carrying your firstborn, and she has simply changed her mind about wanting to be married, and you will not be able to see your child born, or even visit with him for several years after! ( During the draft days, Uncle Sam called when your marriage exemption vanished!).
Yes, I know the pain, and yes, I was counseled to just wait, that it was probably hormones. I waited. I wanted her to be happy. I let her know how I felt, and would continue to feel. She did not answer mail, or the phone. She severed the ties completely, and absolutely.
Unbelievably, four years later, she wanted to remarry me! She had married again, had another child and divorced ( she did not know him before our divorce). But she was honest enough to say that all she wanted was the financial security I could offer the children. Talk about hurt! Talk about pain. I wanted her so badly, but her love was not part of the bargain. I had to turn her down!
You will never get over the love, the hurt, the pain, but you Can get past it far enough to establish a new life. Believe me, you can do it!
Time heals all wounds.
P.S. she married a total of 4 times!
2006-10-02 17:13:59 · answer #2 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible, but you would probably be better off moving on for the time being and if it was meant to be...then it will happen in the future. Life is short, don't wait for someone who you are not 100% sure wants you back. You have a lot to give too!
2006-10-02 17:02:47 · answer #3 · answered by berkeleygirl19 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible, but it takes two people to work things out and not wishful thinking. For it to work out u 2 really need to take things slow and resolve all of your issues. Its safer to move on, but if you feel this strongly you should live life w/o regrets. Dont get back together until u have resolved all of your issues or else u r going nowhere.
2006-10-02 17:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My story is true..He was my husband..I said WAS,because he died 2years,and 9 months ago.The last 14 years were the best years of our 34 years married.We separated..he even moved in with another woman.he broke up with her and moved 1,400 miles away,to New York,where he was from.I got hold of his sister up there and kept telling her how much I Loved her brother.Well he started talking to me.I flew to New York.Six-month's later we moved back to Missouri..and had the best time of our lives.I miss him so!If you Love this guy...yes..it is possible to re-unite,and Love,like you have never known can still be found.The day he passed away..he told me how much he Loved me,and that I was the best thing that ever happened in his life.Without him,I would have never known Love.Hang in there Honey.I will say a BIG Prayer for the both of you to find what I once had.
2006-10-02 17:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by Wishee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT VERY POSSIBLE TO GET BACK WITH SOMEONE, BUT SINCE HE YOUR EX. WAITING AROUND IS NOT GOOD, AND
IF IT NOT MEANT TO BE, THEN ALL YOU ARE DOING IS
WASTING YOUR TIME WITH SOMETHING THAT MAY OR
MAY NOT WORK OUT. AND INSTEAD OF WAITING AROUND
MAYBE IT TIME TO START LIVING YOUR LIFE IN THE PRESENT AND NOT THE PAST.
2006-10-02 17:04:40 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't wait on your ex. Go out and have fun. if you were meant to be, they'll come back around unexpectedly.
2006-10-02 17:02:53 · answer #7 · answered by september 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep its possible but why bother
2006-10-02 17:03:46 · answer #8 · answered by topgunpilot22 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ya i guess i f you relly like him sure you can unless he doesnt want to
2006-10-02 17:03:04 · answer #9 · answered by surfer girly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋