mothers and fathers across the world beat theyre children. some say they do it because theyre teaching them a lesson, some just do it for something to do, others because theyre childs life may be goin better than theirs is and dont want theyre child to be happy if they arent. so why are parents doin this?!!!
2006-10-02 17:08:16 · 23 answers · asked by Pheen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I understand that they were probably hurt in the same way when they were growing up but that doesn't stop me from wanting to see them hurt, put away or worse... dead.
2006-10-02 17:12:37 · answer #1 · answered by - 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Parents beat their children because they have no control in their lives. They feel angry, desperate, and have very low self esteem. Their lives are spinning out of control, and they can't seem to stop. The precious little victims will grow up to very often, do the same to their children. It is a vicious cycle that HAS to be broken. It cannot be broken without intervention or change. There are all kinds of things available, but the best way to make a life change, is to give your life over to God. He is the one that created you, and I guarantee you, He did not create a child abusing loser. (I am using the word "you", but in no way am I referring to you, the one asking the question.) God does not make trash, and he has a place in life for each and every person. Including those poor souls that have become so heavy laden with the issues of life, that they strike out at the most innocent of victims. If you know, or are in a situation of abuse, PLEASE seek help now. It does not get better by itself. The guilt being the abuser or abused only makes the problem worsen.
2006-10-02 17:24:02 · answer #2 · answered by wixom62 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the parents who do these sort of things to their children are people who r on drugs or have been on drugs. Most of them r so drugged up that they don't even realize that they r really hurting their children and when the kids r taken away, they want them back and say that they r going to change. Some parents r just really cruel and because of all the drugs, they dont care about anyone but themselves. Its really a sad thing, but its something real that goes on in all parts of the world
2006-10-02 17:16:16 · answer #3 · answered by ur_strange2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, There was like no point for them bein' parents. Theres a difference between disciplince & abuse. Abuse is when your hurtin' your child the kind when you wish you weren't even their Mom or their child of whoever. Well I'm a child & I feel I don't get discipline enough, I don't get beat or any of that I dont even get a finger touched. When I think discipline I think of them threatinin' but not like "Oh Ima put your in the oven.. -_-" More like "Girl you better watch yourself etc...."
2006-10-02 17:13:01 · answer #4 · answered by sweetk1ssz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what kind of question is that oh sure i love to beat my kids all day every day are you nuts it takes a lot for me to spank them but yes i do i first talk then timeout i take away things and so on only if they hurt some one or may hurt will i spank and yes i know there are a%% holes out there they need to make a new law that any person can give a child up with out repercussions like jail time better off being put up than dead
2006-10-02 17:16:42 · answer #5 · answered by rradboys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smacking kids can teach kids a lesson sometimes... but its important not to overdo it. i remember when i was much younger, my mum would smack me if i broke something or said something rude. it taught me not to do/say such things ever again. (I was pretty hard headed, and simply 'telling offs' didnt work)
the things is, it varies among different kids. i reckon a parent should try talking to them first, but if it doesnt work, start raising their voices, if still not working, then go ahead with punishments. whether its cleaning the yard or grounding them, or if they really overdid it and threatens to rebel, smack them!
some kids can just get out of control if parents do not show their authority. i think some states/countries impose child abuse laws too strictly and kids are taking advantage of it. for a moment, think of this as a parent, not a spoilt kid who mis-uses the law and is heartless enough to sue their parents.
THEN AGAIN, i strongly appose on parents applying physical force on their kid to the point that they bleed and wound. there's always a limit to things.
2006-10-02 17:18:16 · answer #6 · answered by lil'sammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the parents abuse them by hitting them or by hand, it make the child scared of the parent(s). They will also have a bad life after. But if you use somthing like a wooden spoon, they will just be afraid of the spoon and the child will know they did something wrong when the parent(s) bring out the wooden spoon.
2006-10-02 17:12:42 · answer #7 · answered by º°`°ºJon Q°º¤ø,¸ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Growing children need to have boundries and lessons, not beatings. Only thing a beating teaches is hurt and hate. Isn't there enough HATE in the world, do we really need to Teach It?
Speaking of hate: think about "people" who train pit-bulls to fight to their death.
2006-10-02 17:14:32 · answer #8 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents become parents from what they learn as a child. Abuse is handed down generation to generation, someone has to stand up and say enough is enough. I think abusers should suffer the worst abuse.
2006-10-02 17:13:08 · answer #9 · answered by Mav 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mothers and fathers beat their children when their child is disobedient. Parents are aware of when their child is misbehaving because they are responsible for their child's knowlege of good and bad. To beat a child is just a method for waking a child into reality and ceasing their bad behavior.
2006-10-02 17:13:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
child abuse is the most horrific thing in the world in my mind. we may never know why people go off and abuse children but we are working on it. It scares the children for life.Someday i wish to arrest those who abuse children without remorse
2006-10-02 17:16:23 · answer #11 · answered by Billy T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋