Do you love her less or more after you have sex for the first time? Should women wait to have sex?
2006-10-02 17:01:33 · 18 answers · asked by bobbie jo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No of course not! Love is more than just sex.
The first time you have sex might not be as good as you had hoped, but that shouldn't mean that you love her any less. Sex like love takes time to develop. OK, sex is sex and love doesn't have to enter into it. But you shouldn't judge love based on just sex. I would say women should wait for the right man before having sex, but all too often "he" seems to be the right man, but turns out to be the wrong man. It's a gamble. It's like anything else you have to get to know something or someone better before you let your self get completely involved.
2006-10-02 17:11:09 · answer #1 · answered by Dale 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is good idea for the woman to leave some desirable things in the relationship to give a sense of anticipation of better things to come. I am not sure how long she should wait. I would say that if you wait for the proper time then the man will love her more after sex but if it is too soon he might just think that she was easy and it therefore would not be as special.
2006-10-03 00:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by JimZ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that sex before marriage goes against the words of the bible, but there is no way I can be in a relationship with someone that doesn't please me sexually. This can happen before or after love has been established. Sex is a big part of my relationship! My feelings will only alter if sex is horrible or the female is too "loose." But it doesn't necessarily make me think less of her.
2006-10-03 00:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have fallen in love before having sex, if women should wait or not is up to her.
2006-10-03 00:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I, like many other people, have fallen in love with women before I had sex with them.
2006-10-03 00:03:55 · answer #5 · answered by s_e_e 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always wait if you are uncomfortable. If you want a guy to fall in love with you, he needs to love you for who you are. It all depends on how old you are, how much experience you have, and what you are looking for.
2006-10-03 00:05:31 · answer #6 · answered by bassmechanic27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
30, would that woman have sex with me before i truly fall in love with her?,,,,lol Of course guys will do that. it doesnt mean its true everytime though.
2006-10-03 00:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by Aaron S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh yea!!! and I don't think that most times love is a factor when men have sex with women, especially when some give it up so easily.
2006-10-03 00:03:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't have to have sex with her before i fall in love, but i definitely want to have sex with her if i fell in love with her, yet, if she is not ready, i will wait.
2006-10-03 00:07:33 · answer #9 · answered by rt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex with her is good but love is better
2006-10-03 00:08:21 · answer #10 · answered by h. jani 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋