i met this guy in a occasion,and we became friends,later on he proposed me,i was also attraced to him.and things were fine and he even met my father,to take a further relationship(marry me).my parents agreed,but now comes the problem he is scared to ask his parents and as i mention him to tell his parents he seems to get angry or disturbed.now he is also seems to getting away from me,but i love him and i dont wanna lose him,any idea how can i get him to my life.....?
2006-10-02 17:06:36 · 6 answers · asked by Ashika D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-02 22:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by khader m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First I'll answer ur q. It depends on how bad he hurt me, n how sorry he is. He proves this by his actions n his patience with me, as it takes me a while to get hot, and also equally as long to cool down. ANd also remember, a girl rarely forgets things that leaves scars in her heart, so tread wisely from now on. Not meaning she'll do something to u, but her emotions will be raw for a while even after she forgives u. Hm..u've done this sort of thing b4, n she's taken u back, so u've decided u can do it again n expect the same result. But she did the smart thing n left u, because she wanted to send u a CLEAR message that there are some things she NEEDS u to obey! I'm sure u have things u want her to obey too. Not controlling type, just respect n consideration for one another. I don't know what u can do. I don't know if sorry will get u out of this jam. She might've decided u guys can raise the kid apart, that if u really loved her, u'd listen to her, or atleast communicate with her as to y u can't adhere to her request. Go to where she's at n try talking to her. Take her out, wine n dine her. TReat her like a queen, really prove ur sorry. Take the baby off her hands for a bit n let her have a spa day. Idk, really show her u love her n ur not just with her 'cause u knocked her up. Good luck. I hope u try, n I hope she forgives u. Please don't mess up again...cuz u know what they say...three strikes, n ur out.
2016-03-18 03:57:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I wish you tremendous happiness and I hope that it works out.
From what it sounds like to me, you both are quite young -- perhaps younger than 20? You need to ask your boyfriend what is going on. It seemed like he was keen to get married, since he met your father, but now, you don't understand what happened. Ask him in a non-confrontational way -- in other words, don't be emotional, and try to stay calm.
If he gets mad, then you should be prepared to take some distance from him. Perhaps he is not sure what he wants, or perhaps he just wants to be friends. It sounds like you are a very kind, sensitive person, and remember, he should appreciate you for who you are. While of course, it is understandable that you want to be nice to him and to do nice things for him so that you win him over, you do not want to be in a situation where he does not appreciate the good things that you do and say. You are young, so please be careful.
2006-10-02 19:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by Nikhil O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him. ur parents ready to meet his parents. just check how he acts. if he ask for more time or he agreed. so he'll marry u of-course. if he tried to ur parents sholdnt meet his parents or make any other excuse. then he is playing with u. i know this bcause i did played same to a girl.
2006-10-02 18:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by ttoottoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop smothering him.
Give the poor man some space.
2006-10-02 17:09:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT REALLY SOUND LIKE BOTH OF YOU NEED TO REALLY
TAKE TIME TO GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER, IT SOUND LIKE
YOU HAVE BEEN DATING A SHORT PERIOD OF TIME, AND
MAY BE THAT WHY HE STARTING TO ACT DIFFENT. IF YOU
HAVE NOT MET HIS PARENTS, THEN YOU NEED TO FIND
WHAT REALLY GOING ON. BUT I HAVE NOT HEARD THE WORD LOVE ANYWHERE. IT MAY BE JUST TO SOON.
2006-10-02 17:12:32 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple dear,tell him how much you love him
2006-10-02 17:43:59 · answer #7 · answered by kabir 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋