Family & Relationships - 30 September 2006

i had a GF for 7 years and we have a son together, everything was good until i sent her back home for the holidays early this year. apparently she was ' hanging out' with a guy abit too often and my friends informed me of this. everybody including her friends told her that this guy is no good, a looser and player. when she came back, i confronted her about this. she swore that nothing happened and i believed her. things were not smooth since. she neglected things and became more demanding and selfish. we got into a fight and i told her to go back and leave our son. a few weeks ago i found evidence that she had an affair with him, so i called her parents and officially broke off our relationship. i kept my son cause i have alot more to offer him (i am canadian while she is african). in terms of education, upbringing, etc. it has been 5 months now and my son doesn't even ask for her!! she is now officially with this guy.
my question is, why is she pissed off at me and being vindictive?

2006-09-30 10:31:41 · 17 answers · asked by ali k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in love with this lad for about a year, and i know he doesn't like me, i don't even think he knows i exist most of the time. Lately it hurts when i'm around him because i really want to be with him, and i want to tell him, but if i do i think he may not talk to me again and i won't be able to because i will not know what to say. I just really want to be with him. What should i do?

2006-09-30 10:31:37 · 11 answers · asked by Ceri 1 in Friends

why wouldnt a girl share her man if she gets what she needs and wants.

2006-09-30 10:31:21 · 9 answers · asked by sergio f 1 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with this guy four months ago. the dating scene wasnt working for me. i seen him at this party and i wasnt rude. he said he wanted to be just friends, blah blah blah. SO i gave him my new cell number and told him tht i didnt want ANY of his family calling it, only him. Well, his brotheres, sisters, cousins & uncles keep blowing my phone up frum restricted numbers! I told him that that was really f*ucked up and I was madd at him. He got all angry and said I was a ''stupid whore" and why was I so upset for...Has anybody been in this situation? Its annoying when restricted numbers call 62 times a day for nothing! I jus want to talk to him, not his younger siblings. Doesn't this show he dont have no respect for me? What should I do?

2006-09-30 10:29:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I saw this online, anyone ever tried it or tried something similar to it?http://www.scentseduction.com/Androstenone_Pheromone_Concentrate.html

2006-09-30 10:29:39 · 7 answers · asked by Dreamyeyes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Even if you are fully aware the other parent has no income and can't finacially support the child(s) and you are not working or paying child support. but you do have a good relationship with the kids. Do you see this as morally wrong

2006-09-30 10:29:32 · 6 answers · asked by 2teens2todds 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 19 female and live with my parents. My older sis (25) and her husband (27) were visiting. My parents went out and so did sis and hubby. Sis and hubby came back home and I didn't know it. I was in my room umm 'pleasing myself' when my bro-in-law came upstairs. My door was open a bit and he saw me. I don't know how long he was watching me! I was so embarassed. I can't look at him now without turning red. I think I had my door closed but I'm not sure. Should I tell my sis or talk to him?

2006-09-30 10:29:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-30 10:28:15 · 18 answers · asked by IVETTE 7/26 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-30 10:28:13 · 26 answers · asked by dew li low moe 2 in Singles & Dating

Im 15 and im getting dressed for homecoming. Should i wear an undershirt under my collared shirt?

2006-09-30 10:27:47 · 6 answers · asked by jkiddx2003 1 in Singles & Dating

Of COURSE!!!!

Dump him.

Flush him down the toilet.

Drown him.

I was trying to get as many answers as possible I DON'T EVEN WANT OR HAVE A BOYFRIEND.

Plus I wouldn't be so stupid as to ask if I should stay with him HECK NO I'D LEAVE HIM.

2006-09-30 10:27:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 10:27:09 · 26 answers · asked by KK 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and tells me he isnt sure if he loves me or not, or other variations of this, this year he said he was in love with a girl he works with and then told me differently said he just got angry at me for catching him up in a lie and told me this intentionally to hurt me, they are best friends, he works with her, talks to her on messenger, all the time calls her and talks and says that she is his best friend and that nothings going on or ever went on with them. It sort of makes me feel bad that he gets along better with her then me, shes like the female version of him and they are so much alike... I try to keep the jealousy from interfering with our relationship and allow him to call her and stuff, Im even trying to be friends with the girl, anyway my question is, do you think that because of these breakdowns that he is going to leave me eventually in time because I feel that he might and im preparing myself for the worst, and should I think somethings going on and

2006-09-30 10:26:59 · 14 answers · asked by beautifullybroken 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i live i nyc and my parents want 2 move to indiana and my sister and dad are buying plane tickets to go there and buy a home to live in and i asked if me and my older sister can stay here and they dont listen plszzzzzzzzzzzzz help meeeee i i always cry i hate tht place psslllll

if you cant help plsz tell me how to kill myself with out hurting myself and with homemade materials

2006-09-30 10:26:12 · 10 answers · asked by ;p 5 in Family

I have a 7 months old babygirl who just started touching all that she can reach. I tell her NO, but she does not seem to get it. can someone give me an idea of what to do? thanks

2006-09-30 10:25:52 · 13 answers · asked by scorpionbeat 2 in Family

2006-09-30 10:25:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I recently found out that my crush (that flirts with me) likes and is dating one of my best friends. He flirts with me, my close friend, and another girl. Is he trouble and should I tell my friend? Or just date the guy who likes me and I kinda like him?

2006-09-30 10:25:29 · 13 answers · asked by beautyxoxox7 2 in Singles & Dating

my mom has tried to break me and my girlfriend up on numerous ocassions sometimes she makes up things about and me tells my girlfriend why you ask? because she's a white goth girl what should i do to stop my mom from trying to break us both up

2006-09-30 10:24:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 13 and my mom seems to dislike me more every day. She's called me "Disgusting", "nasty pig", and several other names. She's subject to slapping me when I tell her something I believe, and acts like I am not entitled to my own opinion. She's hit me every time she thinks I'm "Talking back", and when I cry, she doesn't care, but gets angry and asks me what my problem is when usually she is the cause. What am I supposed to do? It seems like everything I do is wrong! I've lost alot lately and she still doesn't seem to understand me.

2006-09-30 10:24:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My idea of a perfect guy is one who would treat my right!!One that would love me for me, not for how I look or my body or anything like that!! One that would respect and care for me!!

Whats yours? <333

2006-09-30 10:23:28 · 12 answers · asked by majorette13 2 in Singles & Dating

ok,

I met my GF online after she had a q asking for guys to email her cause she was bored, now she lives in the states at the moment but is moving here as soon as i move out of mum and dads at the start of 07, thing is will mum/dad be happy that I have another GF or will they be more concirned as to how we met and that she's american? ideas please and genuine answers only.

cheers.

Mitch
Launceston, Tas
Australia.

2006-09-30 10:22:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

wife cheated

2006-09-30 10:21:38 · 11 answers · asked by diamonddave7676 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2006-09-30 10:20:17 · 11 answers · asked by horsegurl 2 in Singles & Dating

im sooo bored...will someone please do anything to help? (im hitting my head of the keyboard..im that bored) any good sites or anything? please help!! ^_^

2006-09-30 10:19:49 · 14 answers · asked by cheerfull_cherry_blossom 2 in Friends

2006-09-30 10:19:32 · 14 answers · asked by Tim B 4 in Singles & Dating

Would you rather move away and have to make new friends or would you rather have all your friends move away and be stuck in your town with no friends?

2006-09-30 10:19:28 · 3 answers · asked by Angry 1 in Friends

Husband just started over tht road trucking. We have only been married for just over a year and we have a 6 month old child. I miss him so much. He just started so we will have enogh money to move. Where we live now there is no job for him. It is hard for me to have to learn to do everything that includes the house, bills, baby, vehicles. It is very stressfull. We plan on him doing this til February but was wondering if there were any other truckers wives that had some good ideas. We have cell phones but I work full time so it is hard to talk too much to him. Thanks

2006-09-30 10:19:10 · 2 answers · asked by Autumn 3 in Family

Can you please help me!! I think my boyfriend might be cheating on me....Could you tell me the normal signs to look for??? And...Could I lead him to cheating by constantly accusing him??

2006-09-30 10:19:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i approached my ex a couple of weeks ago that we should get back together. He said he would think about it. Thursday I met this really great guy, we didnt exchange numbers but according to my friend he might be interested. How ironic that yesterday (friday), my ex says....ok lets get back together! what should I do??? get back together or see if something happens with this new guy??

2006-09-30 10:19:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know some one who was my friend like a week ago but all of a sudden started acting all skep(fake) and i want to be his friend but he wont even talk to me and he keep talkin bout me!! what do i do? call him up on the phone and cuss him out??!! or not??

2006-09-30 10:18:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends