2006-09-30 10:28:13 · 26 answers · asked by dew li low moe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love and support her. Offer to go to the doctor with her. Support her in whatever decision she makes. Whether you decide to marry or not, you need to stay supportive of her and your child for the rest of your life. If she chooses not to bring the pregnancy to term (by getting an abortion) you need to be supportive of THAT decision too. Do not pressure her either way. You can never understand exactly how she feels. Likewise, since she cannot know your feelings, you need to let her know the facts about how you feel too ("I'm not ready to be a father", "Will you marry me" etc.) Ultimately you need to support her in whatever decision she makes. In either case, whether she is pregnant or not, you need to practice safe sex, starting NOW!
2006-09-30 10:40:54 · answer #1 · answered by Jeph J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i thought my fiance and i had gotten me pregnant to but then again we just found out we should call it quits because we live to far away and other stuff to.but anyways another thing is that you should really get a pregnancy test to find out that is if you have the money but if not go work for it but how old are you if you can't take care of yourself nither your girlfriend then get an abortion it's the only way out i don't believe in it but if i find out that i am i have to since my fiance and i called it quits.so yea but i am going to hate myself because it's really murder doing abortion but i have no choice i don't have the money to take care of it by myself.but anyways just take a test and good luck i really mean that.
2006-09-30 10:33:31 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do a test to be sure that shes pregnant and find out if the baby is yours coz what if she did it wit someone else and she wants you to be the father of her child.
2006-09-30 10:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Serious and sad problem. This is a moral judgement that you will have to live with. You are a person of your culture and upbringing and one person you cannot run away from is yourself! Think carefully but wisely! Good Luck.
2006-09-30 10:32:50 · answer #4 · answered by Tom Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends how you feel about it...if you want the baby...congratulate yourself. If you don't...talk to her...consider the options. Either make a family and work things out...or if she doesnt want the baby either put it up for adoption. Please don't abort...the child deserves a life...unless it's a very early preagnancy...then consider abortion too.
2006-09-30 10:31:11 · answer #5 · answered by Veronica K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to support her if she is...everything will turn out fine if she is.....if she is a week or 2 late get her a preg. test, if she still doesnt start take another test, then go to the doctor
2006-09-30 10:32:42 · answer #6 · answered by lovin' you 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a MAN and BE THERE FOR HER AND YOUR NEW BABY. The reality is your life has just CHANGED instantly. Alot of Joy ahead and alot of responsibilty ahead. It's a new begining. One day at a time.
2006-09-30 10:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by waawaazzzzat 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Be a man and start being a father!
2006-09-30 11:26:34 · answer #8 · answered by crystal e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start preparing for Fatherhood.
2006-09-30 10:32:34 · answer #9 · answered by me 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-30 10:37:00 · answer #10 · answered by AL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋