I have been in love with this lad for about a year, and i know he doesn't like me, i don't even think he knows i exist most of the time. Lately it hurts when i'm around him because i really want to be with him, and i want to tell him, but if i do i think he may not talk to me again and i won't be able to because i will not know what to say. I just really want to be with him. What should i do?
2006-09-30 10:31:37 · 11 answers · asked by Ceri 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
We are friends its just over the past year i liked him more than a friend & when i around him it feels like he doesn't know i exist
2006-09-30 11:24:01 · update #1
If you love him then you will tell him! If you & him are friends then you can get through it, he shouldn't really care. Ask one of your closest friends to go & tell him how you feel, then if he doesnt like you, you can say she was jokin or something.
2006-09-30 13:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by Ceri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he does kno you exist it's just you make your self hard to see. so step put of the fog and show him all of who you are and that he should at least give you a chance if he still doesn't like then he has no idea what he's missing. good luck.
2006-09-30 11:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by F9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, thats a long time and if it starts to hurt thats bad. but if you really want to be with him, start a friendship first and then see if he likes you better, and if he doesn't just be his friend until he does, and when he does, ask him out.
2006-09-30 10:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by Rabidactyl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry but I don't understand how you can love someone that you aren't even friends with...makes no sense to me. !!!!!
Perhaps introducing yourself and becoming friends will open the doors.
2006-09-30 11:20:03 · answer #4 · answered by Kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are feeling is NOT love. Love is something that is shared between TWO people.
2006-09-30 10:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel! if he rejects it, fine at least you went after him, but you never know how someone feels unless you talk to them yourself, he may even feel the same way!
2006-09-30 10:38:02 · answer #6 · answered by DUSTY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to a movie or tell your friend to talk to him its a lot easier
2006-09-30 10:33:24 · answer #7 · answered by Linda Lou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him and get involved in a relationship with him!
2006-09-30 11:31:38 · answer #8 · answered by crystal e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out. that should be your first step. then see where it goes from there.
2006-09-30 10:32:43 · answer #9 · answered by Leela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out
2006-09-30 10:34:20 · answer #10 · answered by ilovedogsandcats17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋