Can you please help me!! I think my boyfriend might be cheating on me....Could you tell me the normal signs to look for??? And...Could I lead him to cheating by constantly accusing him??
2006-09-30 10:19:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1 If he starts ignoring you
2 If he doesnt answer your calls.
3 I he stops hanging out wit you.
4 Look into his eyes, itll tell you.
2006-09-30 10:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you can lead a man to cheat on you, by constantly accusing him of it. Why?... because he might as well do what he's constantly being accused of doing anyway. Plus, such actions stem from jealousy, and jealousy is one of the forms the fear take, and it is fear, not hate, which is love's true opposite. Thus each time you act jealously, you are belittling the value of your love, by adding to the whole of your relationship, negative qualities that can make the bad outweigh the value of the good.
2006-09-30 17:24:48 · answer #2 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could I lead him to cheating by constantly accusing him??
No, you'll just drive him away quickly then when he does sleep with another woman, it won't be cheating.
2006-09-30 17:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by beefstrokinoff39 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unlike the previous answerer I am a guy and would suggest you to talk to him. I don't think it would be good idea to just not say anything and suspect him for cheating you. remember the best way of working out a relationship is conversation. if you really want him to be with you or not cheat on you talk to him
2006-09-30 17:26:14 · answer #4 · answered by ben a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has he started being nicer than normall to you is he buying you little gifts now and then and never used to do has his personality changed in any way at all since you suspected cheating .......be careful use a little tact if you keep accusing him he will just walk away eventually
2006-09-30 17:25:37 · answer #5 · answered by paul3461 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might help him along if you keep accusing him of it. At the least you initiate mistrust which is not good for a relationship.
2006-09-30 17:29:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can. Trust is the foundation of all successful relationships. If you can't trust him, then u probably aren't meant to be. Common signs are disinterest in what you have to say, no eye contact, and stuttering
2006-09-30 17:22:47 · answer #7 · answered by fachizzzzle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you cant lead him to cheating. Its his choice to do it.
Also, chances are if you think its going on, theres a reason. And you should talk to him about it. If he gets upset, than theres an issue.
If he shrugs it off as you just being crazy(lol,jk) than your good to go
2006-09-30 17:21:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he gets phonecalls/txts does he hide who they are from?
thats the only thing i can think of.
What has led you to think he may be cheating would be some good information to share.
2006-09-30 17:22:34 · answer #9 · answered by Ben P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the cheaters hot line and if he is bust his nuts ,
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2006-09-30 17:25:13 · answer #10 · answered by outlaw64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋