Family & Relationships - 30 September 2006

I'm getting married soon, but he was married once before. It only lasted2 and a half years, and he didn't love her. Married her really, cause she asked him to. They didn't have a "real" marrige. But, I can't forget that he was married, and that I'm not his first wife!!!!
Help!!!

2006-09-30 11:19:17 · 25 answers · asked by MRS MCCRUM 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive dated girls ive met at bars and clubs b4, and thus far they have all been about the same...i am about to graduate college and am just wonderin if anyone knows a good place to meet a more...idk what the word really would be, wholesome girl??

2006-09-30 11:19:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 11:18:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is love? Who made it up and why? Is it a universal law, or a stationary effect on the heart? Do we all need it, or can one live with out it?

2006-09-30 11:18:13 · 9 answers · asked by lifescircle 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I think they look hot in their uniforms and maybe they would protect me,lol.

2006-09-30 11:17:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last night, I was out with some friends. After the bar closed, we were invited to a party. I agreed to go, (I was driving) with two friends. When we got outside, a couple more girls jumped in the car. I had brought donuts to work that day and had leftovers in the back seat. They sat on them. We get to the party and everybody's having a good time, then people started doing cocaine, being a recovering addict, that made me very uncomfortable. By this time it was about 4-4:30am. I told my friends I was ready to go. They weren't and told me so. I drove them there and I'm the type of considerate person that if I bring someone, I make sure they get home, so I stayed until about 5:30. They all got upset with me because I wanted to leave. Was I being inconsiderate? I don't think so. I think they disrespected me, not the other way around.

2006-09-30 11:17:21 · 14 answers · asked by real_sweetheart_76 5 in Friends

That is what they teach and preach in any recovery program. Remember where you came from so that you do not return there. Remember the source so as to continue forward. So isn't that a contridiction to forgive and forget. Move forward not back?

2006-09-30 11:16:18 · 8 answers · asked by sweetdreams 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How old does a child have to be to decide who he/she wants to live with? Can he/she move to a different state with whichever parent he/she wants? Do you have to go to court if he/she can decide?

2006-09-30 11:16:08 · 5 answers · asked by white_dove521 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend went out tonight for a quick drink at the pub, that was four hours ago... is that a quick drink?

2006-09-30 11:15:09 · 27 answers · asked by Hayley W 1 in Weddings

I'm a medic in Iraq looking for a more personal way to meet women than online dating. I get to go home on leave for two weeks but its going to be hard to meet a girl and try to convince her to wait another 6 months till I come home for good. 19 and haven't started college yet any ideas?

2006-09-30 11:14:52 · 6 answers · asked by DOC 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this great lady about a month ago. Earlier we were discussing moving in together. We were debating how long would be a good time to get to know one another before we make the big move. I thought 6 months would be a good wait, while we get to know one another. How long should we wait before moving in together?

2006-09-30 11:14:02 · 14 answers · asked by bolddragon 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 11:13:57 · 1 answers · asked by vendellsgril 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-30 11:13:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-30 11:12:40 · 15 answers · asked by Audy K 1 in Singles & Dating

other than yout breast or privet parts.

2006-09-30 11:12:37 · 22 answers · asked by lets talk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my mum has a friend who she's been intouch with for over 4 years on the internet, they became good friends and she was asked to go over to Florida fo a visit, when she got back home, she said she had a wonderful time, whilst she was there her friend asked my mum if she would consider having her 20 year old daughter come over to stay with her because she wants to come to England and study, anyways my mum said yes, anyways this girl has been here just 6 weeks and she treats my mum like dirt...i have came close to slapping her twice because of her horrible attitude, she always complains about her room being too small, she moans about the food she is given, if my mum wants her to help out in the house she tells my mum to do it herself, i have told my mum to send her back to Florida, and to contact her parents and tell them whats going on, my mum said she does not want any fuss....she told my mum to shut up the other day...so i flipped out...should my mum send her back...i think she should

2006-09-30 11:12:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well it's not a secret to everyone just my family. I am dating someone who they would hate. Guess why?? It's because he's black. He is one of the sweetest people I know. They would like him if I weren't dating him. Last night I went to my high school footnball game he's in the band and I was sitting next to him. My mom made a comment to me today about it she said you know that black boy like you. . . she knows that we were talking and that we went out but she doesn't know that I didn't break up with him like I was supposed to. . . that was one thing I couldn't do I love him and that is one thing my mom would never understand. I am happy with him and she would say that because he is black he will cheat on me or as soon as he sees something better he will leave me. That is something he would never do I know he has been through this before. . .What should I do??? and another thing is that my cousin is a teacher at the school I go to. . .

2006-09-30 11:11:09 · 7 answers · asked by Smile 2 in Singles & Dating

my borther and i are having a contest to se which number is better.

2006-09-30 11:11:03 · 7 answers · asked by salaramir2000 2 in Family

My friend asked me out but i just see him as a friend and he's a cheater and a heartbreaker so well yeah. But i know that im pretty or at least i think so, i just dont get why i havnt been asked out. It really makes no sense and everytime i see a couple my age i start to get kind of depressed it really hurts when you havnt had your first kiss or even been asked out! what should I do?

2006-09-30 11:08:29 · 28 answers · asked by kyrsten425 1 in Singles & Dating

which song gets you in the mood for romance?
at the moment my song is Back to one by Shayne Ward!

2006-09-30 11:08:09 · 12 answers · asked by Mrs Chicagosgirl!! 5 in Singles & Dating

If you are mad about something a person you are intested in is doing, is it bad to let them know you are upset? Why would you want to hide such a thing?

2006-09-30 11:08:01 · 5 answers · asked by kakk333 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been used, abused, manipulated and hurt by all the people in my life I choose to love. I try to give everyone a chance, and if I love a person, Im really good to them. I try to treat them how I would want to be treated but always end up feeling the pain. People use and manipulate me, sometimes I even feel like thats all I am here for, to make others feel loved and that they are good enough yet I never seem to feel this for myself because im manipulated like some pawn used and discarded for their enjoyment. Everyone I have ever known have used and manipulated others... Im beginning to feel theres no one left in the world who would actually treat me with respect and love. My mother and father abandoned me and no one really ever wanted me, my husband knows this but uses me as well. I just get my heart broken by those I love and taken advantage of? Do you think there are any other people out there like me who love others and dont try to use them for personal gain of some sort?

2006-09-30 11:07:13 · 19 answers · asked by beautifullybroken 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

his gf thinks this question he asked is kind of stupid really

2006-09-30 11:06:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm totaly into this girl Anna, Imagen what I could invent or what inventive thoughts I could come up with if I didn't waist my time thinking of her all the time!

2006-09-30 11:06:48 · 7 answers · asked by Bo V 4 in Singles & Dating

We both don't have any stds and I don't think he will marry me.

2006-09-30 11:06:29 · 5 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Singles & Dating

hey guys!
what exactly do you look for in a girl. (appearence and personality) i know everyone has different likes, but im curious as to what you guys want in a girl.

2006-09-30 11:06:14 · 9 answers · asked by SoccerSweetie<3 2 in Singles & Dating

Mine was, I left my longer legs at at home,
Thats why im only 5 Feet 5 inches tonight.

2006-09-30 11:05:51 · 8 answers · asked by lets talk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a dilemma, my best friend, a guy, is dating one of my girl friends. I have a have issues though, they both really seem to like each other, although they say neither of them wants a relationship. My guy friend even confided in me that they are having sex. I'm bothered because I fear that we won't be as close as we used to be, as of now he spends his meals, and nights with her, which he used to spend with me. And I know how the girl is with men, she has a past of using men which I do not want to happen with my best bud. But hes so happy in a way that I can't make him. He tries to make time for me, even took me out to dinner like old times last nite. I do not want to date him, but I miss the constant companionship. My question is how to make sense of what I'm feeling.

2006-09-30 11:05:22 · 10 answers · asked by sugasofly85 1 in Singles & Dating

It' seems as though every persian person I know has alot of money and drives nice cars and wears nice clothes...this seems to be in their race only. What is the reason for that. thanks

2006-09-30 11:05:14 · 9 answers · asked by old 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 11:03:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating