I met this great lady about a month ago. Earlier we were discussing moving in together. We were debating how long would be a good time to get to know one another before we make the big move. I thought 6 months would be a good wait, while we get to know one another. How long should we wait before moving in together?
2006-09-30 11:14:02 · 14 answers · asked by bolddragon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think the sooner the better! What better way to get to know someone and if you can be compatible?
2006-09-30 11:46:36 · answer #1 · answered by Qusan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What constitutes a "great woman"? What does she do for a living?
Does she have any children from another? Six months are not long enough to know anyone that well. How often have you dated and why would you consider having her "move in" since you know that you can always sleep together at her place? Unless you are ready to marry her she should never move in with you or, chances are, she will never move out if the relationship doesn't work out. Don't be too eager to play house with a casual sexual relationship. What about birth control? I think that you should listen to Tom Lycus on 97.1 FM and be schooled on the manly arts.
Women tend to have many skeletons in their closets nowadays so BEWARE. I highly advise that you examine the situation more closely since golddigers are afoot.
Mr. M on "should she move in."
2006-09-30 18:22:50 · answer #2 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend moved in with her boyfriend after 6 months and she said it was the worst thing she ever did it ruined their relationship I would wait at least a year
2006-09-30 18:16:56 · answer #3 · answered by Smile 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends.
If you're a hedonist, do it tomorrow, no,. . . .tonight!
If you have some morals, then wait at least 6 months.
If you're a Christian, ( and many other religions) you can't do it with a clean conscience.
Everyone gets some degree of hurt at times, but while hedonists don't care, they cause the most damage.
2006-09-30 18:20:40 · answer #4 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes, it's way too soon! 6 months at least! U only MET her a month ago.
2006-09-30 18:25:25 · answer #5 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't matter .. it will change the relationaship. leave it as long as possible ... that way .. u give the relationship a chance to fail ... and save time moving out again.
or ... never move in 2gether .. it will lsat longer that way
Dr bad
2006-09-30 18:19:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She should move in as soon as you are able to go #2 with her in the room, and you both laugh about it.
2006-09-30 18:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest 2 years.
2006-09-30 18:19:12 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Right after the wedding!
2006-09-30 18:18:33 · answer #9 · answered by Angela H 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Long enough to get to know her alittle. Four weeks isn't enough time.
2006-09-30 18:16:39 · answer #10 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋