My friend asked me out but i just see him as a friend and he's a cheater and a heartbreaker so well yeah. But i know that im pretty or at least i think so, i just dont get why i havnt been asked out. It really makes no sense and everytime i see a couple my age i start to get kind of depressed it really hurts when you havnt had your first kiss or even been asked out! what should I do?
2006-09-30 11:08:29 · 28 answers · asked by kyrsten425 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i was 17 when i had my first kiss, glad i waited. gave me more time to be with my mates, it all changes when u get a boyf.
dont be in a hurry to rush into something thats gonna be special. enjoy the trials and tribulations of growing up without hassle from guys, its well worth the wait
2006-09-30 11:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
God to be 15 again!!!
You don't have anything to worry about. It will come when you least expect it too, and it will happen with the person you least expect it to.
Be happy with what you have going for you and maybe you could even do the asking sometime.
Don't worry about being rejected, but if you are just say "OK then just thougth I'd ask" and hold your head up high and walk away with a smile.
Are your girlfriends really happy or are they talking about other guys even though they are dating someone? Listen closely
2006-09-30 18:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by richy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have been asked out.. maybe guys that are around you..know that your not interested in dating. because you thought that guy was just a friend. and no guy likes to be in the friend zone so that kinda gets on to other guys.., but dont worry., never been kissed. isnt really big.. because you will eventually be kissed. its not like theres an age to be. like sex.., theres no age range but its better to be older and in love than to be younge and out of love. nothing ever makes sence in life. things are just happening naturally. and i know its out right now...but why not wait for the perfect guy.. and enjoy your kiss than regreting it. dont be depressed about something that will happen a thousand times when you get older. like not that much older. like 16 and up. i was first kissed when i was 16. and i regreted it. because later on lol.. I didnt enjoy some of the kisses lol. i remember this really bad kiss ahhahaa.., not something to rush into.. but there are some good ones too. but to my surprise more awfull lol untill im husband... and im 18. I went through so much.., that now theres nothing really left except get a career and kids some day. theres nothing to look forward as first times. All of them are gone except mother hood of course. thats yet to come some day. but seriously.. take rush into everything at a younge age. you would wish it all happened. being spaced out. dont worry you will be kissed. and asked out. sooner or later.
2006-09-30 18:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by Jewelz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fret! Things happen to people at all different ages, and even though this hasn't happened with you yet, it doesn't mean anythings wrong. Sometimes boys/guys are intimidated by overly independent girls. This isn't a bad thing. It just takes boys longer to build up the confidence to approach you in a more-than-friendly way. It'll be worth it if you hold out and be patient. And don't settle either - it's alright to be picky when it comes to the opposite sex.
2006-09-30 18:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by akflame81 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HHmmm i had that problem as well a while back, i was like 12 lol young, anyways well get more in to guys, cute doesnt cut it sometimes, so make ur self beautiful not saying u arent cuz dont know who u r.. So look for what kind of girls guys like, then capture them all...Good Luck!!!!!!!!!1
2006-09-30 18:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find somebody around your age who you like. Spend some time with him to make sure you like him. Then ask him out. Just hold hands first and see how that is.
2006-09-30 18:11:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey.
how about this I am a 27 year old guy that's never had a girlfriend.
I wish that i did,
But don;t worry about it,,I've seen all my friends have their hearts broken and all that bad stuff,
You are so young, Chances are YOU WILL find somebody good that'll like you
2006-09-30 18:13:43 · answer #7 · answered by the d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey jus chill!!! u still hav lots of time - dont hurry - m sure u dont want ur first kiss from a jerk...
if u like sum1, go ahead and give him indications and he wil ask u out.
my name is Ric and I wud love to take u out.....
now u can say that u havent been asked out by a guy !!!
2006-09-30 18:20:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would say try talking to more guys. Like u know flirt with them more because their may be lots of guys who find u attarative but they dont know if you like them. So try letting your personality out more, ask for a phone number, ask them if they would like to go eat or to a movie. It doesnt have to be anything serious, if u do some of this they should begin to relize that u like them.
2006-09-30 18:16:23 · answer #9 · answered by bryanortunio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing in this life better than the freedom every one like to have fun with somebody but its sooooo early for you and why the depression you have to be cheerfull all the time because you are luky and your parents so you dont know how that things get you in troble watch OPRAH it will be good for you .
2006-09-30 18:22:35 · answer #10 · answered by bisso 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋