ok,
I met my GF online after she had a q asking for guys to email her cause she was bored, now she lives in the states at the moment but is moving here as soon as i move out of mum and dads at the start of 07, thing is will mum/dad be happy that I have another GF or will they be more concirned as to how we met and that she's american? ideas please and genuine answers only.
cheers.
Mitch
Launceston, Tas
Australia.
2006-09-30 10:22:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm 18, she's 19 also what will her parents think of me being an aussie? she hasen't told them her plans yet.
cheers.
2006-09-30 10:31:33 · update #1
the bored bit was in here email response, the q read and I quote, "any guys out there 17-19 wanna chat"
cheers all.
2006-09-30 10:39:37 · update #2
Hey Mitch,
I'm a 20 year old male from the states. From my previous relationships and dealing with parents (mine and theirs), i've realized that it doesn't matter what they think as long as you are happy. However, to answer your question, unless they have a problem with americans, I dont feel that they will have any problem with your future relationship as long as you know that is what you want to do. But I guess it also depends on what type of parents you have.
Hope this helps
Jeff
2006-09-30 10:27:16 · answer #1 · answered by jeff_elsten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They will be concerned with how you met, no doubt about it. Chatting on line and living with someone or even dating in person is completely different. I know people that chatted for a year, but when they met, absolutely no sexual connection. So, I really don't have any ideas to put them at ease since I'm not convinced this is going to work either.
2006-09-30 17:28:08 · answer #2 · answered by just browsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they will be more concerned that she is American and that you might leave for the States. It is hard to see one your kids go that far. I know. If you stay in Australia do not jump into marriage until she is well used to your life style. Hate to say it but a lot of American girls are high maintenance.
2006-09-30 17:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by antiekmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a parent, regardless of where you are from, the most we can hope for is that our children are happy and independent. We need to have faith (in ourselves for the job we have done over the past 18 years) and let you lead your own life's. This breaking away process is hard on a lot of parents, but to finish the cycle of having and raising children, we have to eventually let go and let them soar on their own. Of course, we are still going to be giving you lots of of "free" advise, even if you don't ask for it. The only difference is, you want get grounded anymore, for not using it. :) I hope your parents will feel they have done a good enough job and allow you to make your own "choices" and let you "learn" from these choices. Good luck!
2006-09-30 18:01:26 · answer #4 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents shouldn't have a problem with her nationality. The problem is you'd be living with a stranger. Its best if she makes a visit first. Spend a couple of weeks seeing the sights, let her go home, and then decide if you want to move in together.
2006-09-30 17:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by farahwonderland2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your of age and can be on your own, why worry about mom and dad's thoughts.
A time comes when parents have to learn to untie the apron strings and let go.
When my kids left the nest, they were on their own as to how they lived and whom they lived or went with.
Today to many parents are tryiing to run their kids lives after they have left home. sorry all you parents out there who do, IT WILL NOT WORK.
iF YOU TOO ARE SERIOUS and feel you would have a good relationship, its your business no one else's.
go for it but be wise. Good luck and dont be worrying about mom and dad. only concern yourself with how you feel and how you should act and live. good luck
2006-09-30 17:28:22 · answer #6 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a parent, I would not be concerned that you met her over the internet. What I WOULD be concern about is how mature you behave when the girl comes to visit. Do not be defensive about whatever you two decide to do, it makes parents doubt your ability to make mature decisions.
2006-09-30 17:57:43 · answer #7 · answered by SanRae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your parents will be happy for you - but don't meet up with her for the first time alone! i met my bf on the internet, we are now engaged and have a house together. my parents couldn't be happier, they love him as much as they love me. yeah there are some freaks out there, but 99% of the time its a happy ending, just talk to them tell them how you feel! they'll understand!
2006-09-30 17:25:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a parent, I would hope that you would tell your parents what you are planning on doing. I think you should be open with them and make sure this is what you really want. They should be supportive if that is what is truelly going to make you happy.
2006-09-30 17:25:48 · answer #9 · answered by whisper_sass 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello Mitch,your parents want the best for you.the first sentence says it all.asking guys to email her co's she is bored tells you you are getting into something over your head.there is no gal in the states.someone is pulling your chain.stick with the gal you know.will save you a life time of pain
2006-09-30 17:34:13 · answer #10 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋