Family & Relationships - 29 September 2006

my wife works at the bowling alley (5 min walk home) and tonight i fell asleep at 1010 when i was suppose to pick her up at 1100pm. well lately ive only been getting less then 6 hours of sleep, which is not enough for me. when that happens you cant wake me up with the first 2 hours of falling asleep. i set 2 alarms to wake me, it didnt work, my wife called me twice on my cell and twice on our home phone, still didnt wake up. she is absolutely pissed at me now, wont even look at me. this has happened twice before this night. its not like i intentionally did this but she doesnt understand. anyways whats your point of view about this? dont bother saying a smart as* remark i will remove it.

2006-09-29 04:43:06 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am going to fast everyone who doesnt have a religous bone n there body that simply means "to clense your mind ,body,& soul" of all that is not good.You have to do it for a certain period of time & see if u can succeed w/o those things that u may be used to or used to doing.Movining on me and my 2month olds dad, well just say that he's put me through a lot of sh*t! while pregnate after & so on.Well he claims he's sorry and all & now he's trying to change to be a better person.Ok I dont knock anyone for trying but Im still deeply hurt by the things that occured between us.So it seems like he's moving to be better but 4got all the pain he just caused. To name a few he threw girls n my face,cursed @ me,called me names,never spent time w/me,was very mean while I was pregnate,which he had never treated me like this.Neway I tried to get over it,be nice,not speak unless about r daughter,but still having flash backs.i decided to do w/o him 4 30days & nites.How do I do it but let h/ c thebaby

2006-09-29 04:42:58 · 14 answers · asked by brighteyesali06 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Foam, cloth

2006-09-29 04:42:49 · 1 answers · asked by JWW 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

when raul saw me he just went behind his friend and turned aroun and left but later he told me he loved me and that i was his girlfriend now i realli don't understand

2006-09-29 04:42:32 · 12 answers · asked by tomboy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

If yes, then why its not so important for a boy?

2006-09-29 04:41:55 · 16 answers · asked by Billoo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-29 04:41:30 · 11 answers · asked by vidula p 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 04:40:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 04:40:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do you believe that there is a relation to this saying, "If your parents were married, then you'll probably get married." "If you were in a single home, then you won't get married cause you don't know how to act properly in a commited relationship like that." My mother and father were not married and I'm a little worried that because my mother wasn't married, that I won't get married either because I don't know how to treat a man the way he wants to be treated because I didn't have that example growing up. Honestly, am I SUPPOSED to cater to my man (in all aspects) and I KNOW he loves me? Is there really anyhting wrong with that?

2006-09-29 04:39:41 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why the pressure?

I even tell girls straight up when I first me them that I don't want marraige and yet after about 6 months ...

I don't get why people get married in the first place... one person? for the rest of your life?

Sorry but, if I get married, I'm cheating every chance I get.

2006-09-29 04:39:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 04:38:46 · 40 answers · asked by *R* 1 in Family

I have some questions about him that I can't ask him directly. Any suggestions how I can find it out undirectly???

2006-09-29 04:37:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was seeing this guy. We're both married - to different people. I've changed. I decided to stop seeing him 6 months ago, but he still keeps calling me. Not often - maybe once a week. He say's he just wants to know how I am. I keep telling him that I'm okay and that he does not have to worry about me. Another wierd thing is he keeps asking me out "as a friend" just to have lunch and say he's going to call, but does not call at all. Not that this is a bad thing. It is completely okay for me not for him to call. I just dont know what he wants from me. He says he still likes me and stuff and then when he says he wants to go out, he does not follow through with it. Also, whenever he asks me out I just say yes, but I've stood him up a lot of times and that's what I keep doing. But why does he keep calling me - he knows this is not going anywhere?

2006-09-29 04:37:46 · 13 answers · asked by dazed and confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Theres a guy i like in work and i thought he likes me and i was thinking bout asking him out. But the thing is lately hes being whispering to his mate and im worried he may now have a girlfriend. As ive heard stuff that like dont worry i wont mention it and whats her name when i go out with the girls for a coffee and come back into the room they look up and stop talking when i walk.
in the room. So are there any signs that he could have a girlfriend as the impression he gave to me was he was single

2006-09-29 04:37:33 · 10 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1 in Singles & Dating

her disorders are by-polar manic-depressant multiply-personalities abusive-tendicies likley to abuse the children. MAXED the SCALE out at (214). I need details concerning such court cases where mother lost custody

2006-09-29 04:36:38 · 4 answers · asked by ilovejlt&jatjr@sin.JATSR.com 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He says he only likes me as a friend. That remind him too much of his ex. I get that, as unfair as it is. I will get over it.

But, one of my best friend (who has never met him) emailed him about a party they will be attending for a mutual friend, and he wrote her back about a paragraph and a half about how he only likes me as a friend (he said this about four times in the email) and he doesn't want to hurt my feelings. But he does care about me and he thinks I am sweet but "it would never work". He says he has been distancing himself from me because of this. "I don't know how much of this she has told you, but I thought you needed to hear my side too."

She really doesn't know much about what is going on, so she was kinda caught off guard. She just read parts of the email to me over the phone. She said "Obviously, he has thought a LOT about you.."

Did he just need someone to talk to who knew me? Do you think he thinks I'm mad at him? Or, like she thinks, that he is trying to supress any feelings he might have?

2006-09-29 04:36:11 · 22 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

I met her in greensboro about 2 years ago and I have been looking for her ever sence. If you have any infomation pleaese let me know.
I miss her.

John Curtis Priddy

2006-09-29 04:35:28 · 8 answers · asked by Super C 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years now and we have 2 children together and i love him with all my heart.Is it wrong if I ask him to marry me and how should I ask him?

2006-09-29 04:35:09 · 17 answers · asked by Dee T 2 in Marriage & Divorce

In the 90's you used to see a lot of white men with black women - but you almost never see that anymore. And when you see a black man with a white woman it's not two college graduates but usually a half-retarded thug and an ugly fat white girl who's trying to be black. It seems that educated, professional people seldom date outside their race (the exception being white guys and Asian women) but the under-class still do.

2006-09-29 04:34:56 · 7 answers · asked by Glockmeister 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok I am a 22 year old single mother who is dating a 32 year old. What are your thoughts?

2006-09-29 04:34:52 · 4 answers · asked by BabyGirl 3 in Singles & Dating

So I started dating this boy right when college started. I didn't even want to get into a relationship so fast but he is one of those guys who was just 2 good to pass up on.

The last 7 weeks have been unreal. He is the nicest sweetest cutest guy who dsn't knw how adorable he is and it would get to the point of him texting or visiting or calling was almost 2 much with him only living a lfoor above me.

Over the last 4 days he has just like made absoutly no contact with me. I text him and he won't respond and if he does it's a yes or no. I'll text him and tell him to call me when he gets back, i'll see him get back in the building and he won't call me and his sn is never online. This isn't him and my gut tells me something wrong. I talked to him 2 days ago by waiting for him and he sayed things where fine and started to ignore me.

I cryed myself to sleep last night. he is always in the back of my mind jabbing my heart everyday. I never knew I cared for him so much.

2006-09-29 04:34:37 · 8 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 04:34:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I live with him, he is much older, and I just want to learn smth. new, cuz my life is boring right now...

2006-09-29 04:33:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im bi and i dont know how to tell my parents. i am more open with my friends

2006-09-29 04:33:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What's with that? For instance a guy will tell a gal that he's not good enough for her. Take a hint girl!! Listen to him. He's probably telling you in the "nicest way" he possibly can that he doesn't want you.

In the end, when it ends, which it's obvious that it's going to eventually, she'll end up blaming him for such a lousy relationship when in fact he did tell her in the beginning that he's not good enough for her!

Now answer me this: Why do couples NOT listen to each other? Are they hoping for more from this person who already declared that he's not good enough? Are they hoping for change?

Nothing is going to happen!! Move on!!

2006-09-29 04:33:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you touch a man's thigh, does it always mean you're interested in him? Or do you do it just to toy? Or are you just "touchey" and do it without realizing?

2006-09-29 04:32:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A female friend just wrote this to me in an email (I am male). I have no idea how to respond to this. The last time I tried to console her (about something a bit more specific) I got accused of trying to fix her problems when I should have just been listening.

What's the best way to respond to this???

2006-09-29 04:32:06 · 15 answers · asked by Mars 1 in Friends

WHY DO PEOPLE ALWAYS WANT MORE? When you get that feeling of being grateful and its SO POWERFUL, then a couple months later, you dont FEEL it, but you know you are still VERY GRATEFUL, yet, your still not happy and want more, but you do know that you could do far worse, but it dont make you feel anybetter. ?????

why does it go like this? please serious replies, nothing less.

2006-09-29 04:32:00 · 26 answers · asked by london lady 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was taking to a friend of mine and we came upon this topic. Personally, I find that it is cheating, if you are breaking the rules of your relationship. If you find you have to lie or be untruthful or think your partner wouldn't agree... then it's cheating. However, if you have had the talk or you know there wouldn't be a problem - and therefor no reason to hide it... it's really not cheating. My friend said it is 100%. Anyone want to help us out. Who ever has the least answers for their side (between my friend and I) has to but the other a beer.

But please.... answer honestly. :)

2006-09-29 04:31:24 · 19 answers · asked by Willalee 5 in Marriage & Divorce

She just doesn't care anymore. She calls and tells me she isn't coming home some nights. She disobeys all my rules and is completely taking advantage of me. She sneaks out every night and I am getting tired of it. I have taken her to the counsilor so she can express what the problem might be, but the councilor has expressed that it looks like we have a good relationship. I don't know what to do. I am considering changing the locks the next time she sneaks out and letting her be cold and hungry for a day (night) or two. Any ideas?

2006-09-29 04:31:05 · 8 answers · asked by Billy 3 in Family