Why don't couples listen to each other?

Question

What's with that? For instance a guy will tell a gal that he's not good enough for her. Take a hint girl!! Listen to him. He's probably telling you in the "nicest way" he possibly can that he doesn't want you.

In the end, when it ends, which it's obvious that it's going to eventually, she'll end up blaming him for such a lousy relationship when in fact he did tell her in the beginning that he's not good enough for her!

Now answer me this: Why do couples NOT listen to each other? Are they hoping for more from this person who already declared that he's not good enough? Are they hoping for change?

Nothing is going to happen!! Move on!!

Answer 1

cause they wanna speak speak . . . . .no one wanna listen

Answer 2

whatdya say, babe. I was listening to a CD! lol