I have some questions about him that I can't ask him directly. Any suggestions how I can find it out undirectly???
2006-09-29 04:37:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah, obviously I dont know the questions, but you really should be honest. If he finds out that you've been going behind his back investigating him, he will be really pissed. Tell him you just need to know these things so that your relationship can progress. Sorry, but that really is the best way.
2006-09-29 04:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by AKA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...short answer is, U CAN'T. :) the reason why is that men and women just think differently.. u could hint and beat around the bush and try to get some info out of a woman that way, but u can't do it the same way to a guy. in fact, most often than not they DON'T get your hints at All and u end up getting pissed off! and it's not ur fault..but it's not his fault either. =T the whole problem is that u gotta be able to communicate w/ ur partner, or else ur relationship is gonna get screwed somewhere down the line. cuz guys do NOT think the same way...i realized that w/ my boyfriend.. i was trying to treat him as best i could (as a female, i am naturally affectionate, nurturing, want to help him as much as i can, etc etc)...and in a weird way, i was expecting the SAME from him! but he is not naturally that way! so he couldn'tl understand when i got pissed off, even tho logically speaking he was acting like a jerk, but he couldn't realize it until i POINTED it OUT...therefore, not beating around the bush but being direct and to the point, but in a nice way, not accusatory. good luck, hope things go well~
2006-09-29 04:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he wants to play Truth or Dare, tell him it will be fun. Then start out with some truth questions and then get to the freaky dare questions, by the time you get to the dares, he'll forget about the intimate truth questions.
2006-09-29 04:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm...its kinda hard to answer you question because its very general.. be more specific..
but the best way is to ask him head on because if you mess with his head and ask confusing questions then he'll distance himself more and may not answer your question at all...
2006-09-29 04:41:51 · answer #4 · answered by Kai-girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him about a friend in the same position as you and here what he says.
2006-09-29 04:45:29 · answer #5 · answered by the truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask someone who has known him longer than you. Why can't you just ask him?
2006-09-29 04:40:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with him on yahoo messenger. trust me, they don't talk the truth face to face
2006-09-29 04:41:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋