Family & Relationships - 29 September 2006

I have been with my forever fiance for 4 and a half years. I have 1 child I was pregnant with when we got together and brought her into the relationship (almost 3), one we had together (20 months) and I am 16 weeks pregnant with #3. Recently we've had many discussions about "us" but he always turns the "us" conversation into a "me" conversation. He thinks our issues is directly related to me. He says I'm not much at all the same person he got together with 4 years ago. He would like me to be more of a person and says I am not a whole person and everything about me is "unresolved." He says I have no fight left in me anymore, which is true because after being with him this long I've realized that nothing I do, say, feel is good enough for him. I'm a quiet and reserved person. He is the opposite. I don't bother talking to him much anymore because he says our conversations are one-sided, him doing all of the talking. True, because I don't want to enter into a confrontation.

2006-09-29 05:23:02 · 8 answers · asked by october g 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in love with a man and I believe he loves me. It is just that he has a weird way of showing it. I dreamed of him even before we met...when you I say he is the man in my dreams he is.

2006-09-29 05:22:10 · 10 answers · asked by phas_1 1 in Singles & Dating

are on the right path?

2006-09-29 05:21:58 · 32 answers · asked by lori b 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My daughter had a one night stand with this guy she barely even knew; to make a long story short she ended up pregnant and had the baby in June of last year, we have been searching for this guy for a year and almost a half now and so far have gotten nowhere! He lives in Oran, Missouri and his name is Zach Phillips, he's believed to be somewhere in the age range of 18 to 20 years old! Anyone with any info. on this matter would be greatly appreciated! Thanks to anyone with information!

2006-09-29 05:21:57 · 8 answers · asked by shelly_mo67 3 in Singles & Dating

WELL MY FRIEND GOT INTO A FIGHT ON THE BUS AND I STANDED UP AND THE HIT GIRL ME IN THE FACE.THEN I HIT HER BACK IN THE FACE.THEN WE GOT TO FIGHTING.

2006-09-29 05:21:35 · 4 answers · asked by CARLOTTA L 1 in Friends

last saturday my family had a party and everything was going ok until some people started getting drunk. then my cousins friend who is married came to me and told me he likes me ever since the first day he saw me. yes i do find him attractive but he is too old for me, plus he is married. me and him use to be friends but now i don't feel confortable around him so i try to avoid him. am i wrong for doing that?

2006-09-29 05:20:22 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ladies, you have shown men that in many cases, you would rather be told what you wish to hear then you would to be told the truth. Face it. Many times you will know that a man is lying to you yet you will give into him. Yet if he simply told you the truth, you would not give in and you would dislike him. So much for being honest with you as many of you say you want. Well, we arent stupid either and we have learned from you. It is my beleif that many times a woman would rather be lied to knowingly then she would to be told the truth. That way when the guy doesnt call or come back around or they break up, the woman gets to play the victim rather then admitting to herself or anyone else that she was a willing party to the events and one who knew what the deal was. A woman may want a man as badly as she wants him, yet she doesnt want to have to admit she simply wanted him physically and made the choice to have him absent a relationship.

2006-09-29 05:19:45 · 21 answers · asked by Mr. JW 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-29 05:19:41 · 37 answers · asked by Hacker 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married 3 weeks today, and I am a woman on the edge.

I know that I want to marry my partner that bit of it doesn't scare me, but I'm terrified that something will go wrong, I'm having nightmares that the cake won't arrive, or my dress will get torn, or that I've forgotten to order the flowers (i know i haven't)

Id there anything anyone can suggest - other than getting drunk!

2006-09-29 05:19:28 · 31 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Weddings

Okay, I dont really like asking this on here. But my friends have not helped me with this one much. Im 21 and I have been with my guy for a year and something. I am sexual active, and have been for sometime now. But my question for you all is, Why does it seem like all my boyfriend cares about is sex? I was his first.. And I know that has somethings to do with it. BUT while we are driving down the road he is ALWAYS touching me in some way some how. He is always talking about it. But I know he loves me.... Because I waited untill a year before we has sex. Should I be worried that this is all he cares about? He tells me diff and seems true to his word.

What do you guys think?

2006-09-29 05:18:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

turn them into animals...it is not like i want to sleep with them? What gives

2006-09-29 05:18:22 · 20 answers · asked by dawn r 1 in Singles & Dating

here it is.. I have an ex girl friend who loves me very much but is with a current bf though she is very happy with him. I have a new gf to whom I am falling in love with and I'm very happy with. and I have a very close friend to whom I've hurt by paying less attention to because I'm with my new gf and she says that she loves me as well.... what do I do to show that I'm always going to be there for my ex, that I love the girl I'm with, and that I'm sorry and that my friend is still my best friend and that I care about her?

2006-09-29 05:17:10 · 13 answers · asked by ¥Captain_Random¥ 2 in Friends

I want to make it easy for my boyfriend to stay faithful to me. What is the best way to do that, men! Thanks.

2006-09-29 05:17:06 · 17 answers · asked by h1joy 2 in Singles & Dating

A girl I fancy is into basketball. Could I get into my school team if I lied about my height?

2006-09-29 05:17:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 05:16:37 · 30 answers · asked by joy19640208 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 05:16:36 · 7 answers · asked by LISA W 1 in Family

2006-09-29 05:15:46 · 16 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 05:15:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my husband have been experincing in web cam sex, i have no problem when others are watching us, but when we my husband wants to watch other girls while were having sex i tend to get jealouse and end up saying something that i usually regret . is this wrong of me?

2006-09-29 05:15:33 · 20 answers · asked by shine 2 in Marriage & Divorce

...if he was good looking, nice, and spoke fluent English?

2006-09-29 05:15:07 · 22 answers · asked by rainfingers 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 05:14:44 · 14 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Singles & Dating

do u think if their confronted . will they tell the wife the truth

2006-09-29 05:14:40 · 21 answers · asked by misunderstood 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-29 05:14:25 · 4 answers · asked by Mistyfog 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 05:13:35 · 11 answers · asked by Tammy 2 in Singles & Dating

And what and/or how did you feel about it?

2006-09-29 05:13:30 · 20 answers · asked by J.Z. 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend and i fight all the time we fight about everything from sex to football i hate to fight but he seems to always pick them with me. i tried to talk things out but it only makes them worse. he has hit me once or twice but i don't want to break up.. is there anyway to make thing work. we do love each other.. and he wants to have sex but im a virgin. what do i do i dont want to break up because we are perfect when we dont fight

2006-09-29 05:12:31 · 23 answers · asked by Kay 1 in Singles & Dating

i am just curios i daont plan on having it anytime soon

2006-09-29 05:11:43 · 37 answers · asked by Michelle 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 05:10:27 · 51 answers · asked by Hacker 3 in Friends

Im 25 yrs love my wife But i thing her sister is giving me signals that i dont want to risk my mirrage

2006-09-29 05:10:10 · 29 answers · asked by marco polo 1 in Family

I feel like my boyfriend and I are drifting farther and farther apart. I love him so much and we've been through alot in the last year and a half. I don't want us to break-up,....what can I do or not do that will make our relationship stronger?

2006-09-29 05:10:03 · 13 answers · asked by Amber R 4 in Singles & Dating