Family & Relationships - 29 September 2006

there is this girl that I really like, we have only been on one date. when should I give her a kiss? second date or third?

2006-09-29 06:06:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friends husband of 6 yrs got caught driving in a car with a prositute. at 3 a.m. he was high on drugs and drunk. he swore nothing happend with the girl, that she was showing him were to get drugs. he told his wife that he will go get tested for STD's and everything else. he actually made an appointment. so my question do you think she should try to work things out with him or forget about it? He also said that he is gonna get help for his addiction problems too. He has been a real jerk verbal abuse to her bad through out their relationship. They have had alot of problems, he has been in and out of jail throught their marriage.

2006-09-29 06:05:30 · 18 answers · asked by shorte716 6 in Marriage & Divorce

B.J.?

2006-09-29 06:05:19 · 17 answers · asked by BokBok 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 06:04:59 · 14 answers · asked by muddypink 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, firstly is it possible to be in love with 2 people at the same? secondly if so,that is my case i love my boyfriend(of 7months) and my bestfriend(who is a guy) and both guys love me and i don't know what to do because I don't want to hurt either of them(but most probably one of them is going to end up getting hurt)and i know i cant have both guys,so what must i do? i'm so confussed and stuck!!!!!

2006-09-29 06:04:58 · 18 answers · asked by Celestial_Magick 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My colleagues feels I talk innocently and assumes I am pure, innocent person. I don't think so! I just feel some things I rather keep to myself and not be so vocalise and open abt everything & anything. How shld I talk more sense & mature in order to let others haf e impression tt I am a mature being? 25 ok!!

2006-09-29 06:03:55 · 9 answers · asked by makansutra 1 in Friends

I have been married for four years we have a two year old, My husband works a full time job and I work a part time job. I care for my son all day and then work at night. My husband complains that he doesn't get to relax after work because he has to care for our son while I am working. He always complains about being stressed. I work,Take care of our child,clean, cook ,run errands etc and he is stressed. Now am I being unreasonable to chastise him? Is there women in the same situation who feel they don't get the respect they deserve.

2006-09-29 06:03:47 · 16 answers · asked by arizonabrat 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-29 06:03:25 · 19 answers · asked by james44_20 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 06:03:22 · 8 answers · asked by lulu_702 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

if your not from cali what state, city are u in. its nothing special i jsut wanted to know?

2006-09-29 06:03:15 · 8 answers · asked by Priesd D 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

she argues with her mum all the time so i let her stay at my house, but my flat mate doest get on with her, but understands the problem with her parents so doesnt mind her staying. however my 'friend' goes out of her way to upset my flat mate, she doesnt tidy up after herself and is constantly borrowing money, she lets her bf stay in my bed with her, i have spoken to her the day before yesterday and she promised she would make more effort on all counts and it last til yesterday.
i dont mind her being around, but she doesnt seem to want to make any effort regarding keeping the peace with my flat mate or the tidy up after herself or making her money last, she has arguments with her mum and her bf and brings all the trouble to my door, the neighbours have complained about her arguing almost every night, and she knows this, but still makes any effort.
what would you do in my situation?
do you think she really values my friendship or do you think she is taking advantage?

2006-09-29 06:02:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-29 06:02:32 · 18 answers · asked by john 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

or just a recreational sick and twisted perversion?

2006-09-29 06:01:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a Scorpio woman and he's a Taurus man. I love him and he loves me, but do we have a lifetime together. We're into the same things and understand alot about each other, but we were both wondering this.

2006-09-29 06:01:31 · 6 answers · asked by Sane Again 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

admitting that they masturbate? Not all women obviously, but alot just won;t admit it. why?

2006-09-29 06:00:45 · 24 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

A man, two yrs younger to me,expressed his love for me even after knowing my true age. After few days he realised that it wont be a healthy relationship and he started asking me to forget him. By this time I was totally intoxicated by his love coz I never had the experience of the feeling that comes when one is taken care of so delicately. In that one weeks time...I experienced heaven(nothing physical, only we talked over fone).Because I was broken totally..he kept ringing mecoz he felt guilty for my sufferings and pain caused to me. Last month he got married almost 10 months after meeting me. Now I dont get to talk to him. I am unable to handle myself, plz suggest me a way out of such tormenting situation. I cant survive if I am unable to forget him...but dying looks easier than forgetting him.His voice fills me with life, I want nothing else, just be in touch with him...which perhaps is not possible for him.Why he punished me in this way?He took initiative and himself retreated.WHY??

2006-09-29 06:00:44 · 16 answers · asked by Leena 1 in Singles & Dating

I exactly wanna know what have you done in that codition,exactly when
he/she tells you:I hate you!

2006-09-29 05:59:43 · 10 answers · asked by Hamid Reza(the biggest) 1 in Friends

whenever me and my boyfriend have a fight he starts texting other girls and sais well we broke up or u made me mad an thinks that justifies it. we have been together for 2 1/2 years and live together so it really hurts when i have to see it. he always sais im not interested in them or im not attracted to them. so why text them? just to hurt me? or is he making sure he will have backup if we really do split? can a guy really have a mutual female friend they dont want to go farther with? we have had to change his phone number 3 times now because when he tells them to stop texting they dont so im assuming he isnt really telling them to or he is continuing to text them back. im tempted to jus give my number out an start txting guys jus so he knows how it feels but i dont want to sink to his level... advice??

2006-09-29 05:59:27 · 14 answers · asked by Emily May 11/10/08 :) 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-29 05:59:20 · 4 answers · asked by M 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

15 yrs ago i was in a relationship and we had a bad argument and stopped speaking to each other. About a week went by and I thought it was over so I slept with a ex. The next day, the 1 i thought was over called me and we got back together. Did I cheat on him or not?

2006-09-29 05:59:15 · 57 answers · asked by Yum*Yum 2 in Singles & Dating

I do not expect him to do it all the time JUST when he is at home lounging about when I am at work...He works too but his hours are different to mine...It would just be nice not to have to come home in the afternoon to no dishes in the sink....Don't say buy a dishwasher as I not got room for one (already thought about that)

2006-09-29 05:58:14 · 20 answers · asked by Denise W 4 in Family

My beau always don’t aim well when urinating and cause a mess on the floor of our bathroom. I complained to him several times and he doesn’t seem to care. I am fed up with cleaning his mess, should I ask him to sit down and urinate every time he use the bathroom?

2006-09-29 05:57:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-29 05:56:49 · 24 answers · asked by james44_20 2 in Singles & Dating

would you rather date a very skinny (like 5"9", 110lbs, blonde, blue eyed, small chested) girl/woman or a curvaceous (like 5'6", 165lbs, brunette, green eyed, ample chested) girl/woman? why?

2006-09-29 05:56:32 · 11 answers · asked by rnash0305 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy and I have been secretly intimate for quite awhile now. The attraction is mutual for both of us. We joke around alot with each other. He jokes about other guys wanting me, just like I do with him, but how do i know if he is really jealous of other guys? Also he has this other girl that likes him and they have been friends for alot of years. He says that they are just friends and so does every one else, but how do i know if that is true? How can I tell if he really cares about me?

2006-09-29 05:56:19 · 3 answers · asked by marg d 1 in Friends

So my new gf spent the night last night- but before we actually got that far, I decided to tell her that I am bipolar and had spent a week in the hospital last month because I went off my meds. I was so nervous about telling her, but figured she needed to know this. She asked me if I was on my meds now and o.k. I said yes. She said that's good, cuz the only crazy I want with you is in that bedroom. Let's go have crazy sex! Am I the luckiest guy alive or what? It was really hard letting her go this morning when she had to go to work-I miss her already.

2006-09-29 05:55:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 05:54:55 · 8 answers · asked by cucadolphin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

to find a man . i mean i real man that would walk to the end of the world for you, stop and pick a flower for you just because. or stay the way when you first meet . nice, sweet, kind. why do they change right when you get confortable and happy ? they change and show you their true colors. i am married to a man that cant let go of his mother so i let him go. i came to realize that , every man i'll ever meet will never meet the needs of a real woman. im that person a Real Woman who wants a Real man to be there for me and show me he can be that person that can meet me even half way. and stay the same when i first meet him. Real men Where are you ????

2006-09-29 05:54:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 05:53:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My BF has a very depressive personality. He's definitely a glass 1/2 empty kind of guy. This is not to say that he doesn't treat ME well, but he's very negative about himself. I'm an upbeat, see the positive side of everything person and I feel so bad for him that he walks around in a cloud of negativity all the time. I've made subtle hints to him that there are prescription medications that could possibly help him, but he's not interested. I really love him, but the continuous depressive state is almost unbearable some days. How do I help him to see the positive things in his life and not just the negative? How can a relationship work between a manic depressive and an eternal optimist ?

2006-09-29 05:53:11 · 18 answers · asked by earthlove32 2 in Singles & Dating