Family & Relationships - 29 September 2006

I am curious as to whether women can actually appreciate a mans intentions when he says that he has a genuine admiration for the developement of her body. I for one certainly do when it comes to womens breasts. Big or small, I am simply fascinated with how they develop (i.e. like over all size, roundness, firmness... her nipples.. and how it "stands out" from her chest wall). Call me weird or perverted, but I know that womens breasts are an impressive feature of the womans anatomy. Your thoughts??

2006-09-29 05:53:04 · 13 answers · asked by ibjam2001 1 in Singles & Dating

My partner and i have been together for three years we live together and have had lot of problems in the past but are finaly over it all. But now we don't sem to be close anymore or talk to each other. He spends all day everyday on the computer while i'm left alone watching tv or what ever. we never laugh and yet he always laughing with family and friends. A couple of nights a week one of us will end up sleeping on the sofa not because we've had an arguement just we'd rather slepp there then come to bed. we never cuddle, kiss or have sex anymore. We're supposed to be getting married next year! But i feel like this relationship has hit a brick wall!

2006-09-29 05:52:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-29 05:52:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 05:52:16 · 10 answers · asked by trytodazzleme 1 in Singles & Dating

What is up with so many women being so attracted to men who are total anuses?

It seems like the worse a man is, in the worst ways possible, the more chicks want them: physically abusive, substance abuse, alcoholism, criminal history, cheaters, liars, and the list of sins goes on and on.

Don't any women want geniune nice men anymore? If so, I'd sure like to know WHERE to find them. As the old saying goes, "All the good ones (women) are taken," seems to be true. I can't even find good women at churches!

My theory is that women who love men who are anuses are into it for any of the following reasons:

*They have absolutely no self-esteem and actually LIKE being treated like manure.
*They are in it for money and financial security and will tolerate anything and everything to have that.
*They are cowards.
*It's all an infantile game and they need to grow the heck up!

I'm not saying all women are this way, but the percentage of those who are is astounding and shocking.

2006-09-29 05:51:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been working alot latley and I haven't been paying much attention to her latley just need some ideas how to let her know I haven't forgot about her.

2006-09-29 05:50:48 · 24 answers · asked by chuck 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I need to know, If I dump her will she make out that she was the Victim?

By the way I have done nothing wrong and love her to bits but she is not good for my health, by health I mean that I can feel my heart being ripped apart and I dont like it.

We share the same group of firends and I dont want them to take sides, Will this divide the group if I dump her?

2006-09-29 05:50:28 · 17 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

Please Answer!!!!!!! Really Important!!!!! Need your Opinions!!!!!!!!!?
I sent my best friend this message and i was just wondering if you thought it was a good idea?

"ok, this is way too serious 4 me, so i cant believe im writin it, but newayz, i duno if u no, so i jst wana tel ya, i really do care 4 ya, nd im jst sayin it, coz i no i dont show it r say it, but i do. coz, i duno, i guess i can seem like a dick sometimes, nd maybe its coz im introverted r maybe coz im manic depressive, but i jst realized i really dont show it. So anyway, u mean alot 2 me, nd i do really care bout ya.

damn, gota exit this realm ov seriousness b4 i implode... "


Don't mind the spelling, that's just how kids type nowadays, but do you think she will accept this? She says we are best friends, I don't treat her badly, I just don't always express my feelings, and this is the only way I could. How do you think this will go with her? And do you think she will bring it up? Or just leave it as something we know I sent?

2006-09-29 05:50:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been racking my brian trying to find something speacial to get for the bride and groom. I am the maid of honor, and i want to get them something unique. Nothing off of a registry, that they will use for a few years and get rid of. I want somthing special for them. I want the bride to know how much it means to me that she picked me to take this role. I want it to be something from the heart. Please help me ! I have about a month to do this. Any suggestions would help!!!!

2006-09-29 05:50:04 · 10 answers · asked by kree1027 1 in Weddings

It's not something ive EVER been interested in doing personally but i knew coming into this relationship that he has done it himself in the past. I am almost disguisted at the idea of doing it, but semi-curious to try--just to say i've done it. are there rules to this sort of thing? will i just end up hurt in the end? how can i do this without it being too weird? i don't know anyone bi or les. so how can i arrange this?
Signed
Curious and confused

2006-09-29 05:49:32 · 24 answers · asked by AudioPhilia 4 in Singles & Dating

Relationship wise, What's the best way to avoid/defuse arguments in a relationship?..I'm speaking from a male perspective and I'm speaking for all the males when I say FEMALES love to argue about anything and everything. I'm tired of it. I'm about to throw in the towel.

2006-09-29 05:49:07 · 3 answers · asked by Just_Asking 2 in Singles & Dating

Can they fall in love with each other ?

2006-09-29 05:48:32 · 11 answers · asked by Pari T 1 in Singles & Dating

On the street, gym, beach, store, etc

2006-09-29 05:47:57 · 13 answers · asked by GCRhino 1 in Singles & Dating

Last summer at work I met this girl and things went great for a while but nothing last forever.I am hung up on this girl even though in November it will be a year since we broke up.She had moved on with this other guy and being that we worked together I was always hearing her talk with the girls around(close quarters) about how he never returns her calls or always cancels their plans and this bothered me because of how I felt and how much I knew she liked this guy. Its true when guys say that they want their ex to just be happy.I know its childish but I wrote her a letter to explain to her how I felt.I stressed the fact that I didnt want to get back with her,I just needed her to know how I felt because I couldnt keep it inside anymore.Since then we have gone out (just as friends) and we have talked about people we have seen since then and she says she knows how I feel about her.I guess my question is what do I do now? All my cards on on the table.Should I wait for her to come?

2006-09-29 05:47:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Once upon a time, a blonde became so sick of hearing blonde jokes that she had her hair cut and dyed brown. A few days later, as she was out driving around the countryside, she stopped her car to let a flock of sheep pass.

Admiring the cute wooly creatures, she said to the shepherd, "If I can guess how many sheep you have, can I take one?"

The shepherd, always the gentleman, said, "Sure!"

The blonde thought for a moment and, for no discernible reason, said, "352."

This being the correct number, the shepherd was, understandably, totally amazed, and exclaimed, "You're right! O.K., I'll keep to my end of the deal. Take your pick of my flock."

The blonde carefully considered the entire flock and finally picked the one that was by far cuter and more playful than any of the others. When she was done, the shepherd turned to her and said, "O.K., now I have a proposition for you. If I can guess your true hair color, can I have my dog back?"

2006-09-29 05:47:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

iam tired of asking this question again and again........will someone please give an useful answer? i completely adore this guy.i mean iam hopelessly in love with him for the past 2 and a half years. i feel obssesed with him.but,he's already got a girlfriend. i told him that i like him, he said that he likes me too but it would be wrong to dump the other girl for me,and that he doesn't want to hurt her.but he says "i dont wanna hurt u either,i dont know wat to do"........... we just knew each other,not such great friends....why does he care about my feelings? and, i really like him a lot[and,i dont wanna be a *****],what should i do? should i call him up for the last time and give him my new number and ask him to call me when he's single again?or,should i not do it? why or why not?i can't help feeling sad over him,how do i ward off this unhappiness?
please give me some kind and HELPFUL answers.....and,if you are gonna critisise me then get lost,find someone else.

thankz a lot....

2006-09-29 05:46:58 · 10 answers · asked by sad princess 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-29 05:46:16 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i'm 38 and bald not by choice when first meeting some one new how bad does it hurt a guy to be bald on a scale of 1 to 10 be honest

2006-09-29 05:45:54 · 9 answers · asked by crisco 1 in Singles & Dating

When I hug the man in my life I lift my arms up over his shoulders and hug him tight across the back of his shoulders pulling him down to me. He and my guy friends are all taller then me.

When I hug my guy friends, should I NOT be lifting my arms up around their shoulders? Should I just be reaching in for a quick hug by the waist or is reaching up to them ok also??

What is the correct socially acceptable hug? Mind you no one is complaining when I hug them, I just do not want to give the wrong impression. I care for my friends, it is why I hug them, people these days go to long without showing those close to them they care. I dont want to do that.

BUT I do want to make sure my behaviors are socially acceptable to everyone. lol I want to refrain from inappropriate contact ;) Well for the most part lol

So please, opinions anyone??

2006-09-29 05:45:11 · 11 answers · asked by IveBeenHereSinceYesturday 2 in Friends

How does it give you power?

2006-09-29 05:45:03 · 5 answers · asked by 511@ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

my day has been really awful!!
had trouble starting the car, then had to travel miles to work even tho i asked to stay local!!
trying to get home was a total knightmare as a stupid lorry driver decided that the warning notices about max height vehicles didnt include him and he got stuck under railway bridge!!!! the traffic was backed up for miles!!
hope you had a better day than mine..............................................
well come on, tell me how fantastic your day was lol
make me jealous lol xxx

2006-09-29 05:44:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

long story short. I return a call on my husband cell phone. it was a woman, i ask him who the number belong to,. he said a girl he meet a the gas station 2weeks ago, however he didn;t know i kept the number and talked to her the next day, she said they were just friends that meet over a year ago, but they are just friends, that talk on the phone, they never had sex. she didn't know he was married, but knew we lived togather, and had been togather along time. so i told him what she had to say, and ask y he lied, his answer was i didn't want u to think nothing. she was just someone he talked to . can i believe them? I even went to her house, she still swear they were just friends. She said they exchange b-day cards. she had a lot to say that he had told her, but it was all lies, i wasn't the best wife in the world, it's this something i should be mad about and stay, or do i get da hell on?

2006-09-29 05:44:34 · 7 answers · asked by misunderstood 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-29 05:44:17 · 30 answers · asked by rainbow 1 in Singles & Dating

someone who cheats on you or someone who falls out of love with you?

i know either one will make you feel like sh!t.....................

2006-09-29 05:43:53 · 12 answers · asked by *JC* 3 in Singles & Dating

in other words would it cross ur mind that if he didnt have many friends, that that ?would be more time spent with you

2006-09-29 05:43:31 · 8 answers · asked by adriboff 3 in Singles & Dating

i,m aware that when marrying in new jersey you have to obtain yr liscience from the part of jersey that the bride resides in.. if she doesnt reside in new jersey then its wherever the grrom resides.which is fine so my fiance resides in parsipphany new jersey...so we need to get the liscince from the parsipphany registras office.....now this is also fine but we want to get married via civial service then big wedding yr later.. trouble is the mayor or judge only marrys on atuesday and a wednesday.im only going for 3 weeks one of which those thursdays is thanksgiving.i have asked what dates they have available but they say they wont divulge this information till my finance applies for the licience.greattttttt!! which doesnt help me at all as its only good for 3weeks.could i not obtain my licience at this office but get someones else to marry us from another office??? as long as we are marrying in new jersey..is this allowed...???

2006-09-29 05:43:07 · 5 answers · asked by georgousgirlz 1 in Weddings

My best friend and her sister promised to come by my house to watch a movie and then go clubbing...but they are not going to come...! I 've been depressed for 3 days haven't gone to school...and i just want to hung out with my friends...!Why don't they try their best to find a way to come to my house???I always do whatever i can to go when they invite me...and especially today that i need a friend they are not going to come....!
What to do???Go to their place? I am always the one who makes sacrifices and to go there i have to take a cab...which will cost me about $16 dollars... (9 pounds)...i am starting to get annoyed....!!!!!!!What to do???I just want to call them and start shouting!!!!

2006-09-29 05:42:15 · 14 answers · asked by ? 4 in Friends

The reason I asked this b/c I have guys asking me to be their dates from Myspace and I agreed to go out with two lucky guys. One was long-term and one lasted less than one month. Man I have been using Myspace for one and half year and I have over 100 guys asking me out or tell me that I am pretty and etc.

2006-09-29 05:41:57 · 9 answers · asked by Keystar05 1 in Singles & Dating

His name is Larry Wooten, or Wooter or something similar. He is half Native American my mom said. She met him in Santa Monica California in 1983. Her name was Karen Bodick. Are you out there? Does anybody know this man, or think they do? I've wanted to know him my whole life. Please help if you think you can.

2006-09-29 05:41:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I will consider any options...I really want this guy bad...

2006-09-29 05:40:44 · 52 answers · asked by dawn r 1 in Singles & Dating