Please Answer!!!!!!! Really Important!!!!! Need your Opinions!!!!!!!!!?
I sent my best friend this message and i was just wondering if you thought it was a good idea?
"ok, this is way too serious 4 me, so i cant believe im writin it, but newayz, i duno if u no, so i jst wana tel ya, i really do care 4 ya, nd im jst sayin it, coz i no i dont show it r say it, but i do. coz, i duno, i guess i can seem like a dick sometimes, nd maybe its coz im introverted r maybe coz im manic depressive, but i jst realized i really dont show it. So anyway, u mean alot 2 me, nd i do really care bout ya.
damn, gota exit this realm ov seriousness b4 i implode... "
Don't mind the spelling, that's just how kids type nowadays, but do you think she will accept this? She says we are best friends, I don't treat her badly, I just don't always express my feelings, and this is the only way I could. How do you think this will go with her? And do you think she will bring it up? Or just leave it as something we know I sent?
2006-09-29 05:50:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I posted this earlier and alot of the older readers couldn't understand it, so here it is in proper english:
"Ok, this is way too serious for me, so iI can't believe I'm writing it, but anyway; I don't know if you know, so I just want to tell you; I really do care for you, and I'm just saying it, because I know I don't show it or say it, but I do. Because, i don't know, I guess i can seem like a dick sometimes, and maybe its because I'm introverted or maybe because I'm manic depressive, but I just realized i really dont show it. So anyway, you mean alot to me, and i do really care about you.
Damn, I have got to exit this realm of seriousness before I implode..."
Hope that helps.
2006-09-29 05:55:12 · update #1
If she's been nagging you of late to answer questions then she might bring it up. If ya'll really tight, she'll understand and simply respond by being more caring to you.
If she is your best friend as you say, under any circumstances, whether you bring it up or not, she'll understand and be open to your needs.
Cheers and good luck
2006-09-29 05:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not send that message. First off I don't care how kids talk "nowadays" that just sounds makes the person sound like an ***. Why dont you work towards changeing the way kids talk today instead of joining in.
As for the message beneath the terrible language it is a great message but one that should be delivered in person and without all the excuses. Plain and simple - i am your friend and i just want you to know how much you mean to me and how much i care about you. You do not need to go into all the negitive crap - why bring up your bad behavior when you are trying to share something nice with someone?
2006-09-29 05:55:08 · answer #2 · answered by mraandmisse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say exuse the spelling huh. Don't think I can so my first thing to you is type w/ some sense my dear. I can't half way understand what ur trying to get at there. Ok you like her as a friend but nothing else. So who cares if you show her affection and all that other bs... I mean ur supposed to be friends not lovers right. Well I don't really know what you 2 r supposed to be. But anyways I would address it if you sent it to me. I'd chalk it up as totally bs!!!
2006-09-29 05:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by Kimberly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the message was fine, but it's kind of hard 2 know what she'll think of it. I think most girls would think it's kinda sweet that ur addmittin u can be a jerk some times, but if it's true, maybe THATS what u have to work on. Just treat her really well and let her see who you really are. You dont need to hide things from the ones u love.
Good luck with her! =)
2006-09-29 05:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by Sk8r Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all are you more than friends or just friends You worrying seems like you care about her more than a friend. Anyways letters aren't always the best way to go, I'd try talking to her on the phone cuz than u can get her input rather than wondering. Plus its much easier than face to face talks. Or ims theyre good too.And what was the reasoning for sending the leter?? Was she mad about something?? Work with trying to talk about your feelings its not good to keep them inside
2006-09-29 05:58:20 · answer #5 · answered by bcch89 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont see why she would be upset over this, I think is cute that a guy can actually type up their feelings and not be ashamed of it.. she wont be mad or upset, question? Looks to me that is more that friendship you feel. Also, I have to say that you kids are destroying the language, i had to read this 2-3 times to understand what you are writing it is just terrible.
2006-09-29 05:53:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats sweet. Hopefully it won't confuse her though. I was in love with my best guy friend for the longest time and he didn't even know it. He used to say he cared about me a lot...and stuff. It would confuse me sometimes. But being her friend and letting her know you care never hurts! Girls are more emotional than guys, so it probaly put a smile on her face. GOOD JOB!! = )
2006-09-29 05:54:22 · answer #7 · answered by . . * h o n e y * . . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess if she is looking for a manic depressive who sometimes acts like a dick, then everything will work out fine.
2006-09-29 05:53:19 · answer #8 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't mind the spelling? If a guy sent something to me professing his feelings and he couldn't take the time to spell out his words and feelings, I'd be insulted. That's my opinion
2006-09-29 05:51:53 · answer #9 · answered by empress_pam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you again? look it sounds like you have feelings for this girl and not just the friend type feelings and if that is the case you need to tell her before its too late
2006-09-29 05:57:35 · answer #10 · answered by mla_forver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋