What is up with so many women being so attracted to men who are total anuses?
It seems like the worse a man is, in the worst ways possible, the more chicks want them: physically abusive, substance abuse, alcoholism, criminal history, cheaters, liars, and the list of sins goes on and on.
Don't any women want geniune nice men anymore? If so, I'd sure like to know WHERE to find them. As the old saying goes, "All the good ones (women) are taken," seems to be true. I can't even find good women at churches!
My theory is that women who love men who are anuses are into it for any of the following reasons:
*They have absolutely no self-esteem and actually LIKE being treated like manure.
*They are in it for money and financial security and will tolerate anything and everything to have that.
*They are cowards.
*It's all an infantile game and they need to grow the heck up!
I'm not saying all women are this way, but the percentage of those who are is astounding and shocking.
2006-09-29 05:51:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes I agree and im a woman.I am also one of the ones that fell for an a hole,and by the time i realized that it was too late marriage and children.Honestly yes it falls to being a coward.Other women are probaly in the same boat.But there are women that im sure enjoy the mans acts of being violent and nasty due to low self esteem or having it embedded in there brain that they cant do any better or they just like the bad boys.Im not exactly for sure where you can find a woman that wants to be treated well but they are out there.When your not looking is when you will find the happiness you deserve i wish you luck.
2006-09-29 05:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. We all know it's true.
Women are the world's primary do-gooders always sniffing around for a difficult case. They feel it's their mission to help the alcoholic, the womaniser, the thug, the criminal to reform even if he doesn't ask for their help. And if she suffers in the cause, well that's the price of being so pure of heart and selfless, they call this masochism "love"!
The good guys don't need help so they don't attract the attention of these romantic heroines.
The trouble is that it's usually only in the slushy novels that the bad boy is reformed by the power of a pure heart. In real life he's probably still beating the crapp out of her years after they've been together....oh but the sweet torment of that selfless heart. Do you understand now?
2006-09-29 06:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I have a better question- why are men assholes in the first place? No matter who we get with it's never a man's fault for being what he is. It is however always a woman's fault for "picking " him. Men are assholes, women are bitches, eventually one will match up with the other. It's nature's trick to get us to produce children. And, by the by, even a nice man can have asshole moments- no one's perfect anyway. Guy or gal. And who promised you that love or life was a basket of roses? Disney? You got to watch a little less TV man. Everyone has issues, no matter how they present themselves at first. I say stop being so judgemental and then you might see the humanity in everyone. We're not so different, you know.
2006-09-29 06:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems your problem is you don't know the difference between a Slut and a real women. The problem with real Man are we're to damb scared to call these women what the really are.
A S*** needs to get laid and will do anyone that is not Mr. Billpayer material. When Mr. Billpayer comes along she plays the nice girl and doesn't want her past to coundt and lies about it.
So on a Saturday night if you want laid by a slut you have to eliminate yourself as marriage material.
Don't confuse the two.
2006-09-29 06:02:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Silver, I gotta say sex with a bad @$$ is a lotta fun.....You never know if there gonna drop you off at your house or cut your throat and leave you on an abandoned road after wards...It really does put a whole new "cutting edge" kind of excitement into it.....But smile because I understand!
2006-09-29 06:19:11 · answer #5 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beacause they dont know some one better is out there. Make yourself stand out and your right person will come along just like one day when the time is right mine will. All you have to do is wait for the time.
2006-09-29 05:56:31 · answer #6 · answered by LEAH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to answer your question truthfully i have no idea i am a women and i don't understand it either but there are some good ones out there and i'm one of them and i'm not taken so the saying isn't always true
2006-09-29 07:29:26 · answer #7 · answered by sapphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, I'm glad SOMEONE is posting this, cause I was about to do it myself pretty soon. You are telling the truth. What is UP with women nowadays.
2006-09-29 05:56:37 · answer #8 · answered by GJneedsanswers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
didn't you read the last few questions...
Women love to be the victim's...and we love to cry..
2006-09-29 05:54:06 · answer #9 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
BECAUSE WITHOUT ONE THEY WOULD BE FULL OF SH+T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-29 05:56:06 · answer #10 · answered by MAJOR JIM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋