someone who cheats on you or someone who falls out of love with you?
i know either one will make you feel like sh!t.....................
2006-09-29 05:43:53 · 12 answers · asked by *JC* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would rather they cheat on me,..i would prefer being p!ssed than confused.......anyday.
2006-09-29 09:09:19 · answer #1 · answered by juslookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah this is a tough question...
Both are not idea; :(
My guess is that the cheating would be more difficult to deal with. SImply there is a nother person involved and a more viceral physcial manifestation that there exists someone out there who your mate prefers over you. (I think though, this might depend on the situation if it was a long term affair or a drunken night hookup--obviously the latter would be easier to deal with). If your mate simply fall out of love with you, this seems like something that would happen gradually and that you might have felt coming or also felt some distancing and might be better prepared for.
2006-09-29 12:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by linafe7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if He cheats on you, He's most likely already fallen out of love with you........so I guess the lesser pain would simply be that He doesn't love you anymore, but He was honest enough to tell you before He moved on.
It hurts when someone that you love, guits loving you back, but somehow you have to make peace with it.... and realize that without the mutual feeling there, it's for the best; to not be together.
....and if you really love them; you want the best for them anyway...even if it's no longer you....
2006-09-29 13:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by Uwanna Kissimmi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been cheated on ( at least never found out about any ) and nobody has ever broke up with me or told me they didn't love me anymore ... so can't really tell ... !
I would say the falling out of love ... that sounds like you pushed them away or something and it was all your fault .. cheating would probably just f*ck up your self-esteem and you get to blame him for everything ... !
2006-09-29 12:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some one that falls out of love with you because ur always going to think if it was really your fault or not. where as cheating is very clear that they really dont respect you or they are just too horny. their would have never been a future with the cheater but with the other their might have and thats more heart breaking.
2006-09-29 12:48:18 · answer #5 · answered by darkvamp4542 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when someone cheats on you its an easy out and it gives you a reason to be mad at that person. but when someone falls out of love with you and you still feel strongly about them it leaves you with so many unanswered questions its like mental torture. so i guess someone falling out of love with you is worse.
2006-09-29 12:49:02 · answer #6 · answered by l.rahn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to this depends on your attachment to the person. Do you love this person, or are you simply friends dating? To answer which is harder to get over depends on this question. What are YOUR expectations? Both hurt! Sorry to hear of your loss, but jump back up on that horse of life and start enjoying life again.
2006-09-29 12:50:59 · answer #7 · answered by Gary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD SAY, SOMEONE WHO FALLS OUT OF LOVE WITH ME, B/C IF HE CHEATS HE WILL CHEAT AGAIN AND HE'S GONE.
2006-09-29 12:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by tinkerbell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating because if someone falls out of love with you theres no mending that wound
2006-09-29 12:48:33 · answer #9 · answered by shine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone who falls out of love with you. Because they havnt done anything to deserve your dislike towards them, their feelings have just changed.
2006-09-29 12:50:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating
2006-09-29 12:50:40 · answer #11 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋