Ok, firstly is it possible to be in love with 2 people at the same? secondly if so,that is my case i love my boyfriend(of 7months) and my bestfriend(who is a guy) and both guys love me and i don't know what to do because I don't want to hurt either of them(but most probably one of them is going to end up getting hurt)and i know i cant have both guys,so what must i do? i'm so confussed and stuck!!!!!
2006-09-29 06:04:58 · 18 answers · asked by Celestial_Magick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ok, no you cannot Love 2 people.
It is more likely you have feelings for, you lust after, you desire 2 people, but once you finally understand what true Love is you will not be asking if you can love 2, you will finally get it.
Also just a little clue into men's minds...
We don't really have women as best friends or friends for that matter.
The women we call 'friends' are simply those we have not slept with yet.
So good luck with your dilemna but I stake my savings that neither is True Love.
sorry
2006-09-29 06:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let any of the guys to possess you. And I question you, why should you be in love with only two. Don't bring any limitations to your love. Just go with what your hearts says. Today it may want to go with A, tomorrow it may want to go to B, C,D....................
I will tell you about the incident that took place in a aeroplane. Both the women and the man where strangers to each other. They were attracted to each other. So they decided to spend a night together. While leaving, the women thanked the man for the pleasure but denied him to contact her again.
I bet, even your boyfriend (whomsoever you may choose) cannot be faithful to you (atleast in mind). Why not make everyday, a new day?
2006-09-29 08:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by HITS_ON_TARGET 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it is hard to distinguish reality from imagination. Perhaps you are not in love at all. Think over seriously and choose one, but tell the other clearly about your decision, that may break a heart, but never in to very small pieces. Playing games often complicate things for all concerned.
A friend and a lover are two things, try to separate it.
2006-09-29 18:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by bijoy211 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
New chanced on circumstances????? you have been some guy for 10 years and NOW you finally end up in "love" with somebody else after basically 3 months. For shame. in case you extremely love the guy you have been with for 10 years then you extremely'll enable the different bypass. for sure, being in a relationship with somebody for that length of time has some intending to you. Why throw it away for somebody you have been basically "chatting with" because of the fact of your "new chanced on circumstances".
2016-10-01 12:15:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do u mean by love 2 guys? You can love 100. But when it comes to marriage/life partner you have to choose one only. This is not legel/ socially possible to live life long with 2 guys. If you mean LOVE is only SEX. then it is your wish. But legelly & socially it is not correct. Better select 1 out of them & live ysur life happily.
2006-09-29 19:15:24 · answer #5 · answered by narendra k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will give you a clue find a third one and get out of the soup.. seriously you deserve it life is not a dice game dont play with it make a wise decision and look out for a life partner.. leave both of them as they will intercept
2006-09-29 08:23:02 · answer #6 · answered by raunak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get confused,definately u r not in love with both of them.What u had is just the attraction between opposite sexes.Better leave both of them alone.It is good for u and them.If u r in love u don't ask for public opinion.Take care dear.
2006-09-29 07:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by speed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me, I would play with both of them. The one that runs away isnt worth it, and the one that stays isnt worth it either. No guy worthy enough should put up with the playing both fields crap and the wimpy one didnt like you enough to really win you. The one that steps forward, tells you to stop your bullshit and choose is the one you need to be with. Trust me on that!
2006-09-29 07:19:10 · answer #8 · answered by ladywonder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are an indian , you are in the right tradition (of panchali ). you can collect three more good friends and be the modern day version of the historic character. good luck. any more advise needed, pls feel free to ask us.
2006-09-29 06:48:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not love its affection so forget ur 7 month old boyfrnd and go ahed wid ur best frnd because u know each other well and can sattle easily in life
2006-09-29 09:09:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋