My colleagues feels I talk innocently and assumes I am pure, innocent person. I don't think so! I just feel some things I rather keep to myself and not be so vocalise and open abt everything & anything. How shld I talk more sense & mature in order to let others haf e impression tt I am a mature being? 25 ok!!
2006-09-29 06:03:55 · 9 answers · asked by makansutra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it can be more than just what you say, it could be the way you speak - the words you choose, assuming a little girl posture - looking down shuffling your feet, eliminate kiddie slang when speaking, remove the UMN's, yea's, and whatevers. Read the newspaper at least once a week, watch the news - and talk about something current and important. It isn't about adding curse words or being dirty, it is about them looking at you as if your either a child, or just an ignorant adult. Innocent doesn't just mean pure - in this context it can mean unaware and stupid.
FIX IT.
2006-09-29 06:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by mraandmisse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that you would rather keep some things to yourself than talk about them with the world then so be it. Let others think what they want to of you, the ones that matter are the ones that will truely know you. Be who you are and don't let others pressure you into being someone your not that is how you present yourself as a mature being, by being true to yourself. I am one of those open people that will talk about anything and everything but I still understand that not everyone is like me, and wouldn't the world be boring if everyone was the same.
2006-09-29 13:11:31 · answer #2 · answered by mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first... I'd say learn to type and speak properly.
Bad grammar and spelling don't exactly make you seem like the most mature person in the world.
2006-09-29 13:07:57 · answer #3 · answered by :] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like you just the way you are, and you should like yourself too. Personally, I don't like people who give out too much information about themselves. You just keep talking the way you have been and tell your friends to mind their own business.
2006-09-29 13:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
welll... be the way u r... dun need care about others thinking or saying... it better to let ppl tell u r childish or talk innocent right? just feel that you r still young...
2006-09-29 20:40:11 · answer #5 · answered by porridge0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to talk nasty to be more mature. there is nothing wrong with not talking about certain things....say what you wanna say.
2006-09-29 13:07:32 · answer #6 · answered by whosaidthat? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat the small stuff!
2006-09-29 13:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it matter? You know who you are.......OR do you?
2006-09-29 13:06:16 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then tslk dirty
2006-09-29 13:06:06 · answer #9 · answered by 185 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋