to find a man . i mean i real man that would walk to the end of the world for you, stop and pick a flower for you just because. or stay the way when you first meet . nice, sweet, kind. why do they change right when you get confortable and happy ? they change and show you their true colors. i am married to a man that cant let go of his mother so i let him go. i came to realize that , every man i'll ever meet will never meet the needs of a real woman. im that person a Real Woman who wants a Real man to be there for me and show me he can be that person that can meet me even half way. and stay the same when i first meet him. Real men Where are you ????
2006-09-29 05:54:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop looking for your happiness within other people, it can only be found within yourself!
2006-09-29 05:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by kardea 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not as easy to find but the long search will all be worth it when you finally found the man you can really be with all your life. There's just no perfect relationship, each will have his/her flaws and acceptance is the key for them to be able to compliment on these flaws. You should not always expect because it can make you feel disappointed, but instead, you try to enjoy and love what you have. A lot of people are not even in a relationship, be thankful that you were even married and learned the ways of marriage.
You may share your ex-husband with his mother but that's his mother, who gave all her life prior to his marriage to him. And it is actually a lot better to have shared him with this woman that with somebody else who cannot even love him as much.
Just so you know, I married a man whom I feel came to this world to be with me all his lifetime... and I've never felt as much peace of mind and love in any of my previous relationships. He's truly worth all the long wait.
So after letting him go, do weigh your qualifications of a man to marry, if these really matter as much just for you to be satisfied and happy in a marriage. In the long run it may still be the same person that you once married or you can always patiently wait for that guy.
Who knows that dream man is just right behind your noses that you keep disregarding because you are too preoccupied in making him the man that you want him to be. Just the same, maybe you should also try to be the woman he'd trade him mother for anytime of his life though that's just too selfish in a marriage.
Goodluck and keep the faith. I always believed there's atleast one for each of us girls. =)
2006-09-29 13:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by kamahalan_12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found a real man. This guy would walk the ends of the earth for me. He is so kind and gentle . This man wants to spend every waking hour with me. Even thought he is working he still finds the time to come and see me with his busy schedule. He buys me flowers and takes me to dinner. I had to go through alot of loosers before I found the perfect man. Good luck.
2006-09-29 13:02:05 · answer #3 · answered by red1967 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey i really wish i knew cuz i'd tell you, my bf has done the mysterous 360 too, but i finally just put it to him point blank i'm treating you like a king and ur treating me like a peasant. its not working so either ill start treating u like a peasant or u better step up and realize what u got before i bouce. it has seemed to work so far:) GOOD LUCK with men you will always need just a little bit of luck unless your lucky enough to find a trainable one now those are hard to come by trust me i looked
2006-09-29 13:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by CHERRYSCION 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be true to yourself, it is ok to be alone, not as much fun as having a special guy, be sure to wait for what you want or you'll live in misery, while you're waiting fine tune your taste and sexual interest date about, but only committ to the one. the rest are training.
2006-09-29 13:00:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Living with real women?
Havent you heard the saying....if they're worth while, they're usually in a relationship. And the other saying.....It takes two....
2006-09-29 12:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not asking for much, are you? Maybe when you grow up, you'll realize that you're trying to live a dream.
2006-09-29 12:59:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah.. that one has mne stumped too
2006-09-29 12:59:31 · answer #8 · answered by ilyena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not demandin' or anything,.are you,Hon?
2006-09-29 12:58:36 · answer #9 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋