whenever me and my boyfriend have a fight he starts texting other girls and sais well we broke up or u made me mad an thinks that justifies it. we have been together for 2 1/2 years and live together so it really hurts when i have to see it. he always sais im not interested in them or im not attracted to them. so why text them? just to hurt me? or is he making sure he will have backup if we really do split? can a guy really have a mutual female friend they dont want to go farther with? we have had to change his phone number 3 times now because when he tells them to stop texting they dont so im assuming he isnt really telling them to or he is continuing to text them back. im tempted to jus give my number out an start txting guys jus so he knows how it feels but i dont want to sink to his level... advice??
2006-09-29 05:59:27 · 14 answers · asked by Emily May 11/10/08 :) 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
find somewhere else to live, pack, move....then text him GOODBYE....he is just playing house and your not married and if he is going to treat you like that now...sweetie it only gets worse...
Good Luck and go ahead and text other guys but keep your self respect and wait til you leave....
2006-09-29 06:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your man sounds like a complete azz hole. I wouldn't take that bs. I'd give him a dose of his own medcine. Have a guy friend whom u know ur not into. Call u up when u know he's home. And be all hey baby and crap. Walk out side are some where like your trying to hide what ur saying.. Come back in and see what his reaction is. Once he starts to whin and throw a fit which u know he will. b/c for some reason men tend to think it's ok for them to do crap but it isn't ok for us women to. Tell him that's right as long as ur talking to other females I'm gonna talk to other males. Hell I got a date tonight. Just give him back the drama and heart ache he's giving you. But honestly I woudln't stay with him. If this has been going on for 2 1/2 years it's not gonna stop. Drop his azz there are plenty of guys out there that will swoop u up and treat u as a woman should be treated. Good luck!!!!!
2006-09-29 06:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs don't make a right. If he's going to be doing this, then he's someone you don't want to be with. Tell him how much it hurts you when he does this and that it's hard to trust him, because from the looks of it, you can't really trust him.
There is no relationship without trust, and there is no relationship if you have to "sink to his level" just to make him see that what he's doing is wrong.
2006-09-29 06:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by marypaz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 12:15:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u think he'd care if you did they same just cuz ya'll broke up? If he can move on to the next girl and get her number the same day that ya'll break up thats basically saying he dont give a **** about you if he did you'd be on his mind after ya'LL broke up and we wouldn't feel so comfortable to just move on to the next girl and get her number. Just leave him if he does it again or give a taste of his own medicine and see how he reacts, if he dont care which it dont sound like he does then **** him.
2006-09-29 06:08:40 · answer #5 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dude sounds like a tool... if he really cared or loved you, he would NEVER treat you like this. I would end this immature relationship and find someone who will treat you with respect, someone who will fight like hell to get you back or make things right after a fight, not act like tool-boy you're currently seeing.
Good Luck, Mei Mei (little Sister)
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2006-09-29 06:09:04 · answer #6 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You signed up for it when you agreed to be his whore. You've been giving it to him with no commitment for 2.5 years now... and you're even shacked up with him so he doesn't even have to spend any effort on you! Come on! What do you expect?!?!? You have shown him that you don't require respect, so why are you surprised when he acts with that belief?
Not only are you prosituting yourself to him, you're not even charging him. What a tool YOU are!
2006-09-29 08:05:14 · answer #7 · answered by andalucia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sink to his level...it's the only way to make him realize what he is doing is F***ed up...
2006-09-29 06:07:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he want to have back up women when U leave him..walk up and smell the coffee
2006-09-29 06:03:11 · answer #9 · answered by ed46324 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sounds really immature and he is giving me a head ache and i don't even know him!! drop the zero and find yourself a hero!!!
2006-09-29 06:02:26 · answer #10 · answered by notyochic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋