last saturday my family had a party and everything was going ok until some people started getting drunk. then my cousins friend who is married came to me and told me he likes me ever since the first day he saw me. yes i do find him attractive but he is too old for me, plus he is married. me and him use to be friends but now i don't feel confortable around him so i try to avoid him. am i wrong for doing that?
2006-09-29 05:20:22 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is a very nice person he didn't mean to make me feel unconfortable but at the same time because of the fack that we was friends first make me feel self-contious. he tried to opologize but i never gave him the chance to talk to me. as soon as i see him, i would leave the room.
2006-09-29 05:35:14 · update #1
first off your right by not getting involved with him because he is married. But you too are friends so you owe it to him to at least talk to him. Yes, you may feel a little werid but you need to tell him how you feel about the sitiution. I been there before so I know a little how you are feeling. I tell you this if you sleep with him you might even destroy your friendship. I learned the hard way about sleeping with friends. Good Luck with everything friendship is presious!!
2006-09-29 05:43:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel comfortable around him, then you are right in avoiding him. i think you s hould talk to him once though and tell him you are not interested in him, not only because he is married but also because he is to old for you. If he doesn't get the hint from that, talk to someone, like your parents, your cousin, just someone that might be able to hel[p the situation.
I wish I could help you more with this. Good luck.
2006-09-29 12:38:29 · answer #2 · answered by Genny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not wrong at all. The guy is married and trying to pick you up. Pretty discraceful of him. It might be better to directly tell him you're not interested, otherwise he may not get it through his skull. That might cause a slight confrontation though, so choose you're words carefully if you do.
2006-09-29 12:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by alucardgabriev 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you aren't wrong for avoiding him. He's older than you are and married - which means he's off limits to you. If he can't control himself, then you take charge. Don't be alone with him, don't put youself in a situation where he can take charge. Move on.
2006-09-29 12:26:41 · answer #4 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your fully in your right to do exactly as you did i would feel the same way too , Your best of really m aking sure nothing happpens and you will be fine . Good luck .
2006-09-29 12:28:30 · answer #5 · answered by badass-mofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not wrong at all and make sure someone else maybe your mother knows what's going on. Just in case something happens you on the safe side.
2006-09-29 12:25:54 · answer #6 · answered by MIA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not wrong. Not the best way to handle it but not wrong. If I were you I would tell him sorry your to old and your married. Then at least he would know about the old part.
2006-09-29 12:28:16 · answer #7 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but u r wrong for not informing the third party that is involved , u should tell her because then if it leaks out u could end up being the bad one and he will twist the story around and say that u came in 2 him trust me it happened 2 me like that with this girl and my cousin he got mad at me cuz she camme on 2 me and i didit tell him, so yeah step up and say whats what because it can and will blow up in your face, everybody will notice that u r not associating with him DUH!
2006-09-29 12:27:38 · answer #8 · answered by q45dip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude it is obvious that he was just getting dirty with you at that point of time. and anyway if you no longer feel comfy in his presence then chuck him. you are on the right track. I always recommend that you follow your heart when it commes to love problems.
2006-09-29 12:28:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not wrong for ignoring him. He is not worth the risk of sacficing dignity over as well as your self- repect. Move on
2006-09-29 12:26:44 · answer #10 · answered by phas_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋