Im 25 yrs love my wife But i thing her sister is giving me signals that i dont want to risk my mirrage
2006-09-29 05:10:10 · 29 answers · asked by marco polo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
grow up you are married and stop being a guy!
2006-09-29 05:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by bobsdidi 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, it's good that you cared to even ask the question.
You are the Adult in this relationship. Of course she looks up to you and probably romanticizes every part of your life. It's a great thing to get an ego boost.
On the other hand, YOU are the adult in this relationship. You can have your fantasies. She won't be the last. Accept that there are going to be women who infatute you married or not. You will need to get over infatutuation and make responsible decisions that benefit your family. Love your wife with everything you are: a man who appreciates beautiful women, a man who knows self control, a man worthy of trust. You obviously have a pretty good sex drive going, which is good. As long as you handle it responsibly you and your wife should have a long and enduring sex life. Let your wife be your fantasy sometimes too.....
Then you have your fantasy as your reality. And it doesn't get better than that.
2006-09-29 06:11:38 · answer #2 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to risk your marriage, DON'T. You are not helpless in this situation. You need to give a busy signal to your sister-in-law so her signals don't get through. Right now you are using, "call waiting." STOP IT. You are in control. Why destroy not just your marriage, but also your wife's family? This type of infidelity will stick with the family for generations if you do this deed. Stop lusting and GET HOLD OF YOURSELF MAN! You are in charge of this situation. Just stop it.
2006-09-29 05:19:08 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mister, please play the tape in your head all the way through or untill the tape let you see 25 years(automatic) behind bars. If that don't help write what you are thinking until you get to the part of your writing where ,the wife have left and taken everything.
Last but not least, You have no control(maybe) over what you thinketh,but your actions can sometimes destroy you and everything youhave dear to you.
2006-09-29 05:23:10 · answer #4 · answered by kay_gaiter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are attracted to women, you can't help that. Do not act on it. Make it very clear it will never happen. You owe your wife your devotion, and cheating on her with her sister is the lowest thing you could do. Her sister is way out of line.
2006-09-29 05:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all go back to school so you can comprehend the English language. Next, grow up and take care of your wife. Stop thinking with your small head or you will be all alone when your wife catches you in bed with her sister.
2006-09-29 05:13:47 · answer #6 · answered by cramcram62 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats not cool at all buddy. What the hell did you get married for if your thinking about other women, especially her 18 year old sister! Imagine if your WIFE were trying to get with your 18 year old brother... what would you think?
2006-09-29 05:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and act like a mature man. And the sister isn't sending you any signals.
2006-09-29 05:13:05 · answer #8 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a man and it is ok to think other women are attractive, but don't act on anything. Realize that you are an adult and have control of yourself. If she is sending you some "signal" run, don't walk, run!!!! away. Sounds like she is immature in the situation, so please don's stoop to animalistic neaderthal behaviors and let a moment of temptation ruin your life.
2006-09-29 05:14:13 · answer #9 · answered by Megan B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buddy you just drilled a hole in your boat and your sinking faster and faster!!! The first step in cheating, is just thinking about it!!! If you really love your wife then, you'll quit thinking about it. Find a fun hobby to keep your mind off the sister....and I don't mean one that includes lotion and kleenex!!
Good Luck with it!!
2006-09-29 05:14:23 · answer #10 · answered by Amber R 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do not hang out with the sister unless it is chriatmas or thankgiving and even at that try top stayt as far away from her as you can. at that age people are still not mature. and you have 7 years on her and know what you want more then what she knows
2006-09-29 05:15:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋