So I started dating this boy right when college started. I didn't even want to get into a relationship so fast but he is one of those guys who was just 2 good to pass up on.
The last 7 weeks have been unreal. He is the nicest sweetest cutest guy who dsn't knw how adorable he is and it would get to the point of him texting or visiting or calling was almost 2 much with him only living a lfoor above me.
Over the last 4 days he has just like made absoutly no contact with me. I text him and he won't respond and if he does it's a yes or no. I'll text him and tell him to call me when he gets back, i'll see him get back in the building and he won't call me and his sn is never online. This isn't him and my gut tells me something wrong. I talked to him 2 days ago by waiting for him and he sayed things where fine and started to ignore me.
I cryed myself to sleep last night. he is always in the back of my mind jabbing my heart everyday. I never knew I cared for him so much.
2006-09-29 04:34:37 · 8 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I’m going to go 2 his room to talk to him today after classes. I know something is wrong and if he wants to end things (he has never really dated too much) I need closure, because this is affecting me trying to work my hardest at school without all this stress. I adore him and really don’t want to loose him.
When I go to his room what am I going to say. Please Help.
(Please don’t be mean I just want opinions if your going to write something mean just don’t write it at all)
2006-09-29 04:34:45 · update #1
Well i think that by him ingoring you sorry to say he is blowing you off...If he had any kind of intrest he would be calling and stopping by. Or it could be hes really busy but even thats no excuse not to call...The best advise would be to catch him and talk to him tell him how you are feeloing and if he does not give you a satisfactory answer then tell him you are gonna see other people...there are so many guys out there that will treat you with the respect that you deserve. ofr your own sake leave him alone and find someone else....you do not deserve the way you are being treated
2006-09-29 04:41:55 · answer #1 · answered by kristyn m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Baby girl take it easy on yourself no need to get so emotional after all he is not the only one who will like u. u r young and have the world ahead of u. Believe me i have been thru it all. I hav been in ur shoe befor. Dont go talk to him. giv him some time. dont text or call him either. if he wants to talk to u he will call u. Let time and patience be ur guide. and if he doent call u then let him go. If someone truly wants to be with u then they will try to let it work.
Sometimes people r different and they might not be who you wanted them to be but that soes not mean that they dont love u. Probly he has some problems that he is going thru and need some time to think them tru. People sometimes avoid those they love just because they may fear that they might get angry at them when they r going thru depressed times.
If this guy cares about u, u will kno in due time. But do not push it too much. Dont let urself seem too desparate or clingy men dont usually like these kind of women.
Instead change ur attitude a bit u kno example he knos u call everyday so jus stop calling for say 2 weeks and see if he will call u back. If not i think u should let him go.
Good luck
2006-09-29 11:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by Cleo-Petra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go in and dun hope for the best. really,
It looks like he's trying tomake u break up first by treating u coldly and callously.
I really think u will regret gg up.
In any case, dun beg, dun ask for explanations, it will make him clam up more. and dun get desperate. It repulses men even more, and will push him farther away.
Be strong. Heck care about him. He will never be able to give u a satisfying answer anyway.... why bother.
You can and need to stay away, and let ur heart begin to heal now..
2006-09-29 11:57:23 · answer #3 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely don't do what the first person suggested. You're just going to have to ask him straight up whether or not he wants to break-up. Maybe he has something else on his mind that he doesn't want to share with you. You won't know until you talk to him. Also if he keeps blowing you off, stop calling him. You might be coming off as clingy.
2006-09-29 11:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by Loki's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be straight forward with him. Go to his room, ask him if you can come in. Sit down and ask him what is wrong. Let him talk. If he says nothing, explain to him that you see lots of changes in your relationship and that you would like to right the wrongs but he needs to tell you before you can fix it. Good luck sweetie!
2006-09-29 11:38:07 · answer #5 · answered by AKA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats what happens sometimes in a relation ship.... buck up and move on if you have to, or maybe he is just stressed and needs to talk. You can only fight what you can see! remember that when you start to worry about a situation that hasnt happend yet.
2006-09-29 11:38:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST ASK.
If it were me, I would want it straight up.
VERY SIMPLE, LADY!!
2006-09-29 11:45:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
have sex-then dump him-best way
2006-09-29 11:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋