Family & Relationships - 28 September 2006

2006-09-28 18:37:14 · 6 answers · asked by snape4good 4 in Singles & Dating

I really need advice.I was married for several years and had five children out of that marriage and all my children are grown up now.That marriage ended in divorce after the kids grew up.I remarried four years ago,my problem is that I had one son that is co-dependant,he is also bipolar.He ahs been in trouble several times and I always help him or one of his brothers and sisters will.He is a little messed up sometimes and he wants to come home and I usually let him.Hes good to me and really helps me when he,s here ,then he gets cross ways and ends up leaving.This last month he was on the street with only a suitcase and no where to go,my husband said if he comes home he will leave.I let him come home again because I love him and will not let my son be on the streets,so my hushand is unhappy to say the least.I feel I have to help my son and I do.Am I wrong for doing this?My son is not deformed or babbling but he has a mental problem and if he calls me he begs me to tell him what to do and

2006-09-28 18:35:45 · 21 answers · asked by slickcut 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-28 18:35:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she said we had noyhing in coming and ran back to her x boy frend and treated me like crap but befor that she said she liked being with me she said we wold do every thing togeter

2006-09-28 18:32:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Would you ever still your mothers social security number, and get a car, as her a co-signer, and you just pay for it? do you think its wrong? she always helped my brother out, and never help me out with anything, me and her get along, but its like favortism.

2006-09-28 18:32:19 · 30 answers · asked by endless_eternity_forever 1 in Family

i'm not ugly but i'm not all that either... bit on the heavy side... don't like partying, not really into the club/bar scene... i just want to find the man who will love me and take me for what and who i am... no games.... where can i find that???

2006-09-28 18:32:07 · 18 answers · asked by jislajen 1 in Singles & Dating

Woman have such a big responsibility when it comes to a man, well what does it take for both sides to be happy?

2006-09-28 18:30:58 · 12 answers · asked by Mycan Moneek 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay i have been going out with my boyfriend for 9 years we have a 6 year old son and another baby on the way... he has cheated on me 3 times (that i know of) the first time i was 5 months pregnant with our son, he is very immature (oviously) and leaves all the responsibility of taking care of the kids up to me... Although he knows these are his children he takes absolutly NO responsibilty for his son , or the one on the way. We have not had sex in about 2 monthes (because i have decided not to) and we dont live together so we hardly see each other, and we hardly talk on the phone ne more... i really couldn't be bothered to talk to him... i woud have done ne thing for him but i think his attitude has turned me off of him, he will tell me "I love you" and i won't say it back, i will just say "yeah ok" or "yupp bye" and i also don't feel anything for him ne more, i mean i love him and care for him as a very close friend as the father of my children.

2006-09-28 18:28:48 · 13 answers · asked by Romy 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so i was best friends with this girl for 3 years. last year in november she told me she liked me and i have been in love with her since we became friends, so we started dating. we dated for about 6 months when she broke up with me becuase of her religion and i was a drug addict at the time. i loved her enough to change who i was, i stoped doing drugs and started going to church and have become a better person because of it, but she still didnt want to be with me, even though she still loved me. so 3 weeks ago i told her im gonna try to date another girl and she started to cry. she told me she was waiting till the 25th to tell me that she has wanted to go back out with me. she was waiting till then because that was the first time i told her i loved her. so i forgot about the other girl and waited till the 25th to ask her out. she came over on the 25th and i surprised her with a graffiti on my wall asking her out. she said no because she thought i liked the other girl. what do i do?

2006-09-28 18:28:25 · 11 answers · asked by stoned 2 in Singles & Dating

I was with my boyfriend for two years but we broke up because he is a lot older than me and I thought it was time to move on. I guess our relationship got worn out and I wanted to explore.

After that, I met somebody quickly and we are dating but he is so jealous of my exboyfriend and won't even let me hang out with my ex and I still want to be best friends with my ex boyfriend.

The new guy has a good job, a nice car, is younger, ambitious, charming and very smart.

My ex is more insecure, quiet and he knows me so well. It seems like he is always there for me-but he doesn't have a job and is sick right now with cancer. But it feels like he knows me better than anybody and has been with me through so much.

I don't know what to do this is tearing me apart... I feel like I should go with someone new and exciting and start a new chapter in my life but I also feel like I should be here for my ex and our relationship was so comfortable and easy. :(

WHAT DO I DO? HELP!!

2006-09-28 18:25:03 · 12 answers · asked by catanomicsunset 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with my boyfriend for one and half year now. In August, we moved to another state to start graduate school. Although we are not living together, we live about one minute away from each other. The problem is that I got all my tuition waved and full schoolship but he didn't. So he had to pay for the out of state tuition, rent...etc. He sold his car before he moved and told me that he was going to buy another one. However, he never mentioned that again. Now, I payed for everything when we went out, including restaurants, groceries, movies, and gas. He drove my car all the time but never payed for a penny. Also, because I have both a laptop and a desktop, he took my brand new laptop to school and told everyone that it was his. He said that since I don't really need to use the laptop at school so why can't I just give it to him? Well, I don't feel comfortable about this whole thing. Am I wrong to feel this way?

2006-09-28 18:22:19 · 21 answers · asked by confused 1 in Singles & Dating

Yes, you have fantasies, and want have sex with these women. But you face stereotypes, and being ostrasized. Who, out there has no fear of dating, and developing true relationships? Maybe you have socialized "norms" which prevent you from openly dating these "weighty" women you are truly attracted to? During my conversations with women, concerning sex, I can't help but remind them of a common fact: Every shop selling pornagraphy has magazines and tapes involving every "type" of woman from "boyish" to obese. My personal opinion is that this wide market simply portrays the gammut of the male appetite. Henceforth, no woman should ever wonder IF she is attractive; she should assume she is a sexy, astounding, and wonderous figure to the only man who matters!! As long as she makes this assumption, she will find that particular man soon enough. TRUST ME.

Personally, I'm just curious, and in a monogomous relationship of 3+ years. This subject has been a question

2006-09-28 18:22:10 · 6 answers · asked by LYNN MARIE 1 in Singles & Dating

and i minght not spell so good but i do knot mack fun of peple

2006-09-28 18:21:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been addicted to drugs for years not realizing it.I've been addicted to cocaine for about three years.Recently I started smoking it,cooking it myself of course.I don't no what to do because of drugs i've lost evrything I once loved.I feel lost, all I need is the love of a good woman to end my destructiveness.Does anyone have any suggestions?Im currently in college and doing well for my self, but it seems like every time I see my friends I fall into the same old ****.Im only 21 and a great person who wants to love lifeI! Im lost please help!

2006-09-28 18:19:04 · 21 answers · asked by cperr85 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So, when someone is upset what is the best thing to do? Do you ask them what is rong? Or do you try and just to comfort them, or what?

2006-09-28 18:18:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-28 18:18:58 · 7 answers · asked by sunn 1 in Friends

What is your biggest pet peeve about the opposite sex???

2006-09-28 18:17:46 · 1 answers · asked by Romy 4 in Singles & Dating

Now, I know this entails strip clubs... I'm okay with that. I'm REALLY not okay with lap dances though. My boyfriend promised he wouldn't get any. *Humph* I don't want to worry about what may happen. So, my question is, what do I do (tomorrow night ie: Bachelor Party) to keep my mind away from thinking the worst....?

2006-09-28 18:17:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't think it works the way it's suppossed to. i keep getting fake answers, reading fake questions and seeing fake people.

Okay, it's not all of them, but most of them are.
it's getting lame and i'm getting fed up.
Do you agree?

2006-09-28 18:16:16 · 13 answers · asked by #1 Girl -She's Bittersweet- 6 in Singles & Dating

that time i lover her but. I need someone to hold me sometimes.should i leave her ?

2006-09-28 18:16:16 · 17 answers · asked by tarras t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Out of possesiveness i lackd trust and always suspect and checking my bf.After 5yrs he's now fed up.Wen he stop texting and calling i was nearly dying.I paused for a week to take a breath,and contact him if we can stay frens?(just for the sake of having his attention n for him to text me) HE AGREED!!I now want to know if thro this frenshp can i win him back, by trusting and showing him i dont pester again?Show dat i changed?On this ground could it be dat he loves some1 else?(i asked he say he's ok the way he's no1 to pester him) and gota no1 in his life.cud he be lying?wud he agree to text me if he loved some1 else?ur suggestions plz wen he text wat to tell,i cant ask for any chance nor meet him nor call he fly this time!!wat u think

2006-09-28 18:16:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend has invited me for his wedding but not my wife. My wife does not want me to go as she says it is the last weekend before I start a new hectic job and she wants to spend some quality time with me before I start my new job.
I have been studying for an exam these days and do not spend as much time as she would like with her although I do make an effort to spend at least an hour or so a day, in addition to the whole weekend. I really want to go to my friends wedding which would be for about 5 hours on a saturday evening 2 days before my new job, but my wife is adamant that I dont go. I feel she should let me make my own decision about what I want to do. What do you guys think? Is it wrong for me to go alone under th circumstances?

2006-09-28 18:12:53 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex and I divorced last year. He is very behind on his cs. We lived in Indiana when the judge ordered his cs amount. since then he has fled to Tx. How can I persue my cs while he is there. Indiana seems to drag their heels bc he lives in another state. I have a known address for him however he jumps jobs. HELP! I am not raisine 4 kids on my own, one is austsic and he is so far behind. courts just keep raising the amount but doesn't matter if he does not send it!

2006-09-28 18:10:52 · 7 answers · asked by Tamara A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-28 18:10:50 · 25 answers · asked by klay43701 1 in Singles & Dating

I saw on CNN about the girl in Florida who killed herself after an interview with Nancy Grace. I am really down about this for some reason. I always thought the missing toddler story was a bunch of sensationalist porn that news organizations beat to deat, and have always thought they were wrong to do so. It isn't national news and it shouldn't be treated as such: these are people in the worst, darkest moments and they shouldn't be broadcast like they are. But this one has really bummed me out. The girl who committed suicide reminds me a lot of several girls I have known. I have dated a lot of Asians, and a lot of the girls I fall for are a little neurotic and dark. I don't know why, but this story is really depressing me. What should I do?

2006-09-28 18:09:57 · 11 answers · asked by 15fsg546rge1rrheljh45hjr90459ty3 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

We must accept whatever is there and once you accept unconditionally, then everything is beautiful. Every pain has a purifying effect. So whatever comes your way, just be thankful.

2006-09-28 18:09:54 · 14 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Marriage & Divorce

free probon lawyer to advise me of what my options are concering child custody and a dioverce decree in AUSTIN,TX

2006-09-28 18:09:42 · 6 answers · asked by henry19702000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-28 18:09:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so a boy in another class, somebody asked me if I liked him, and I dunno why but I said no...

And nothing's happened since? We used to sometimes talk and I haven't spoken a word to him since.

2006-09-28 18:09:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i really like the guy, and we have been dating for only a few weeks. so should i break up with him, forget it, or hop in bed with them next time?

2006-09-28 18:09:12 · 30 answers · asked by cheesegirl_42 1 in Other - Family & Relationships