Now, I know this entails strip clubs... I'm okay with that. I'm REALLY not okay with lap dances though. My boyfriend promised he wouldn't get any. *Humph* I don't want to worry about what may happen. So, my question is, what do I do (tomorrow night ie: Bachelor Party) to keep my mind away from thinking the worst....?
2006-09-28 18:17:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relax. No matter what he does at a Strip Club, it's over when he walks out the door and comes back to you. It's just "window shopping." He's not even trying anything on. :)
(Like the cool girl-shopping metaphor?)
2006-09-28 18:20:24 · answer #1 · answered by RangerEsq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel the same ,I wouldnt like even a strip bar so you are stronger than I ,how would he feel if you were to go to a place of the same nature ask him this .?I would go out with some friends but knowing me I would sneak and show up and spy ,ha ha ha thats how I am ,but serious just try to be so busy you dont have time .Ok I agree go spy!!! ,come get me I will spy for yah .wishing you the best always .
2006-09-29 01:24:16 · answer #2 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have "girlfriends"? then go out and have some fun of your own.... nothing that keeps you in one place or stuck on one thing for awhile.... you'll just think about him... and get jealous.... which is what you need to take care of, but since its tomorrow, you dont have enough time to zen that out of you.... if it helps.... just remember when you worry about him getting a lap dance, ( if he doesnt then his buddies are going to ***** him out so bad that he will get pissed at you) remember.... then may be making him smile for a couple of minutes... but you get to have him all to your own all night long...they dont get to go home with him, you could even use that "idea and or theme" as a part of foreplay.... that would make him oh so happy and keep him from desiring those unattainable girls... and honestly dont worry. all of those clubs have a firm hands off rule.. so they may make him happy for a few... but thats all
2006-09-29 01:23:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if he should get a lap dance, what's the worse that could happen? It'll be a one time thing and he'll have it out of his system. Besides, he'll still be coming home to you, won't he? Stop worrying. Have some faith in your relationship.
2006-09-29 01:22:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you should be against it. My ex-wife was against it and we stayed happily married for eleven years. For my bachalor party we stayed at my house and rented a movie and drank beer. She went out on the town with her friends. No, Whores on my lap that's for sure! My ex said if we did(like in a lap dance), we didn't( like in getting married). If you claim to be any type of christian, you must not be for the whores. If you want your marriage to fail, let him keep seeing the whores for the next couple years of your life and see what happens to you!
2006-09-29 01:25:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, u get lap dances at strip joints to, not just bachelor parties. at bachelor parties u can actually get laid. thats rite,laid.
i was at one ,one time and there were 3 girls,everybody got laid there that nite. and there wer about 45 guys there to. iv even been to sum strip clubs and hav gottn "extra" there in a back room. be afraid,be verrrry afraid.....
2006-09-29 01:25:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I from personal experience, having three brothers, I do not even like bachelor party's'. Mainly because men all get drunk and then their buddies peer pressure them into doing things they normally would not do!!! Men consider a Bachelor party the last time to have sex with another woman, before they say their vows under God! Unfortunately Their own best friends talk them into it! Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-29 01:38:15 · answer #7 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont even worry about it. Even if he does get a lap dance. They last for like 3 min and you cant even put your hands on the stripper. And its not like they touch you that much either. Its pretty much harmless.
2006-09-29 01:20:36 · answer #8 · answered by bsd300d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should call a few girl friends over, and just have a night at home with them. those are always fun. or you could go out clubbing and just enjoy the night
2006-09-29 01:19:54 · answer #9 · answered by zion354 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just a lap dance its not sex, those woman do not want him they just want money. It is nothing to worry about
2006-09-29 01:20:54 · answer #10 · answered by Gregory Wurm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋