i'm not ugly but i'm not all that either... bit on the heavy side... don't like partying, not really into the club/bar scene... i just want to find the man who will love me and take me for what and who i am... no games.... where can i find that???
2006-09-28 18:32:07 · 18 answers · asked by jislajen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay, okay... i'm fine with how i look... really, i am... got no self-esteem issues, i'm happy with who and what i am....
2006-09-29 16:30:38 · update #1
There's no magic formula....you need to be happy with who you are before you can be happy with another....I know that sounds trite, but it's true.
Until you can relax and be comfortable in your own skin, you are not going to be attractive to others....and if you get desperate, you'll act that way, and wind up with some loser.
2006-09-28 18:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's good that you're not into the bar/club scene! You won't find anything serious there anyway! Have you thought about taking a class? Even Home Depot offers free classes to learn something new on the weekends. My friend just met a nice girl there last weekend while learning how to spackle a wall.
2006-09-28 18:37:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anywhere. If anyone could give you an honest answer, everyone would have the perfect man. Just keep searching, love. He may or may not come around. This is the way and reality of things. If its any consolation, you can e-mail me a pic and I'll let you know what kinds of guys are into your look. (Has to be a natural pic, no makeup at all and hair in a normal state. Men don't want to be decieved).
2006-09-28 18:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find I chose women not so much for them looking like movie stars-because most people don't look like movie stars- but for their personality. I am sure there is a guy out there that can appreciate you. The best thing to do is just live your life. Get involved in some kind of social activity or a club, church, whatever, and don't push too hard. He will find you. Really.
2006-09-28 18:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go out and do things that you like. If you do that you will meet someone that has the same interests as you. And it sounds like you have a little self esteem problem. Dont do anything like online dating because you never know what you will get. Just go out with your friends i guarantee you will find someone.
2006-09-28 18:36:08 · answer #5 · answered by buff_bills1983 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your attitude. Love yourself and act like you are the most beautiful person around. Do go out more often. The rest will follow. I have done that and it works like magic. Trust me. Try changing your attitude towards the way you look and you will instantly feel better.
2006-09-28 18:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like being on the heavy side? I think you should forget about "someone else" for a while and get on being the happiest you can be with yourself both physically and mentally. Once you do that men will find you.
2006-09-28 18:34:35 · answer #7 · answered by bsd300d 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it will come to you take a walk have coffee lunch go any were a lot of people are air show just don't sit at home you can't find them at home go out you don't have to go to a bar and if you do you can drink juice just don't sit home and feel sorry for your self you got to get a man g00d luck to you
2006-09-28 18:40:11 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right after leaving the military i felt the same way i began to take walks in the park reading abook you'd be surprised how many of the opposite sex will want to chat and go from there
2006-09-28 18:37:07 · answer #9 · answered by aldo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend online dating sites, asking friends if they know anyone, if you are involved in any social things like church or school or whatever trying to meet people that way.
The first step to finding someone is to meeting alot of people.
2006-09-28 18:34:15 · answer #10 · answered by Aaron D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋